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Why You Really Shouldn’t Expect ‘Closure’ After a Breakup

Allowing someone else to control how and when you move on will only delay your healing process.

How to Bounce Back Emotionally After a Fight With Your Partner

It’s normal to feel down post-argument, but these tips can help you snap out of your funk faster.
Hopeless romantic

8 Online Dating Horror Stories From People Who Eventually Found Their Person

“On date three, while playing mini golf at night, he said he didn’t think anyone had gone to the moon.”

This Card Game Is Probably the Reason My Partner and I Started Dating

Get ready to dig deep over dinner.
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How to Talk Dirty During Sex Without Feeling Cringey

Experts offer ideas for things to say—plus tips for getting out of your own head in the moment.

Amazon Sells Thousands of Sex Toys—Here Are the Best Ones

Twenty-two expert-approved options that'll get you buzzing.

Can My Partner—or Anyone Else—Find Out Who I Vote For?

Here’s a breakdown of your privacy rights—and what to say if you’re hesitant to share your ballot business.

The Best Mattresses for Sex Are Bouncy and Cooling—Here Are Our Top Picks

Hint: You're gonna want to steer clear of memory foam.

Jennie Garth Went Through a ‘Really Hard’ IVF Journey Before Her 2018 Breakup With Dave Abrams

In a new SELF interview, the ‘90210’ star reveals how the experience put her relationship through the wringer.

Giving Your Partner the Silent Treatment Isn’t Just Petty—It’s Actually Really Toxic

Of course you feel dehumanized and insecure when someone pretends you don’t even exist.
Treasure chest

How to Have a Fantastic Nipple Orgasm Because, Yep, That’s a Thing

It’s all about making your boobs the main event—not the sideshow.
Match made in heaven

Meet the Adorable Tennis Power Couples Competing at This Year’s US Open

“The only thing that counts in my life is going up in the boyfriend rankings.”
Bawl busters

How to Stop Crying During Any Kind of Confrontation

Shedding tears is a natural reaction to conflict, but these tips can help when you’d rather not.
Ex-streamly hot

17 Incredibly Sexy Movies You Can Watch on Hulu Right Now

Get ready to settle in for a titillating evening at home—alone or with a partner.
Heart truths

How to Get Over a Breakup, Even When It Feels Impossible

Yes, time helps—but these tips can make the process a little less painful.

7 People on Why They Chose to Be Celibate for a Spell

“This break ended up being a wake-up call: Most of the people I was seeing didn’t really care about my pleasure.”
Life

How to Deal With Being the Only Single Person in Your Friend Group

If third-wheeling is bumming you out, read this.

This Is the Perfect Vibrator for Beginners

The Biird Gii is tiny but mighty.

How to Get Your Partner to Talk About Their Feelings and Emotions More

You can’t totally change their perspective, but you can make them more comfortable with vulnerability.
Love

What to Do If You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex Drives

Your relationship isn’t doomed, but it’s important to address it to keep resentment from building up.
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Are You Seriously Turned On By Validation? Here’s How to Explore a Praise Kink in Bed

There’s nothing like a steady stream of compliments to make good sex fantastic.

A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging

Ready to take butt stuff to a whole new level? Here’s how to try it.

9 Very Hot Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas

If you can’t—or don’t want to—get it in, we’ve got some moves that’ll still get you off.
Life

How to Make Friends With Other Couples

You might have to look outside your social circle to find The Ones.
Life

What to Do If Your People-Focused Job Completely Drains Your Social Battery

These little strategies can help you preserve some energy for your loved ones—and yourself.