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what goes ON in Banks’ relationships

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sorry i’m going through my mentions after a few days and some of them are just so bad i have to respond. but i think my favorites were “most controversial post of 2019″ which, like, that one’s going on my resume, and then this incredible take that almost knocked me out

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ooooooooh my god where have i ever expressed support for terfs. this is just such a blatant lie i’m almost stunned by it. like it’s okay you can just say you don’t like my post and move on!! you don’t need to try and back it up with baseless accusations and whatever roleplay fantasy you seem to have about me lmfao

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some gays are like “i’m going to dehumanize myself and act like a dog and wear a lock and chain around my neck and serve my alpha master and let him dominate and control various aspects of my life while treating me like a subservient animal. it creates an ideal environment for abusive relationships and self esteem issues to develop but it’s fine bc consent and also bc i think it’s all very sexy. if you question whether this is healthy i will become possessed by the ghost of one of those dead boys from les miserables and post an impossibly obtuse 12 tweet thread where i wax poetic about how empowering and revolutionary my kink is” listen. enough. please go to therapy kings and stop making unhealthy coping mechanisms parts of your identities

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op just stay home and prostrate with your tradcath husband, you don’t have to make a whole post about how having boring sex is the only upright and god-honouring way for us to fuck and that other gay men need to pray for themselves. you dont need to lock the door we aren’t coming for you

GOD what level of brain death do you have to be on to see someone criticize a dehumanizing kink and its effects on people and think that makes them an ascetic tradcath puritan who hates sex!!! it does no one but abusers any good to automatically conflate any well-intentioned criticism of harmful kinks with the worst kind of right-wing moralizing about decency. promoting liberation from subjugation as a coping mechanism is not the same as punishing those who struggle. please learn to make those kind of distinctions before embarrassing yourself on my posts with nonsense like this lol

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dishonored really has the sexiest aesthetic ever. there’s assassins. there’s witches. there’s whales. there’s steampunk tech and shit. a beating heart that tells you peoples darkest secrets. a spooky-looking twink that won’t let you sleep. swarms of rats. it’s just undeniably sexy.

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powerarmor

some gays are like “i’m going to dehumanize myself and act like a dog and wear a lock and chain around my neck and serve my alpha master and let him dominate and control various aspects of my life while treating me like a subservient animal. it creates an ideal environment for abusive relationships and self esteem issues to develop but it’s fine bc consent and also bc i think it’s all very sexy. if you question whether this is healthy i will become possessed by the ghost of one of those dead boys from les miserables and post an impossibly obtuse 12 tweet thread where i wax poetic about how empowering and revolutionary my kink is” listen. enough. please go to therapy kings and stop making unhealthy coping mechanisms parts of your identities

i love the contempt you have for the people whose well-being you are ostensibly concerned about! because, as we all know, what is most helpful to anyone engaged in sexual self-harm is to be moralized at and condescended to. thank you for your valuable service to all those dumb sub fags who are too traumatized to know what’s best for them.

god! save me from these “kink-critical” homosexuals.

1. so now noted misogynist and all around dick sobercommunist is gonna preach to me about effective communication huh

2. you’re mistaking my contempt for these kinds of public defenses of this kink for contempt for people engaged in the behavior itself. but i will concede i was frustrated and flippant, so let me make it clear - i sympathize with people who are taken advantage of and absolutely and unequivocally believe that these ‘pups’ deserve far more than being treated like this by anyone, which is why i’ve posted about this multiple times before. what i have little tolerance for is when people refuse to entertain any criticism of the behavior that they are promoting to others. this attitude that treats kink like a sacred and unquestionable institution helps no one but abusers. in recent years it has gone beyond twitter personalities to a ton of articles normalizing this kink in particular on gay media websites (pride, queerty, advocate, list goes on) regardless of the pitfalls - one has to look no further than Jack Chapman’s death last year to see a flagrant example of how toxic this dynamic can become. or, if that’s too anecdotal, you can look at a 2006 study of master/slave relationships that found that three quarters of ‘slaves’ surveyed were pushed to engage in behavior they weren’t comfortable with. the fact that this kink continues to become more popular, especially among young men who are new to gay scenes, is partly a result of this cavalier and non-critical attitude. i’ve seen people who dare to criticize it in gay spaces accused of “betraying the ideal of sexual freedom that gay rights activists have fought for” which effectively conflates gay rights with a requisite acceptance of and uncritical attitude toward kink, which is a dangerous thing to do. i absolutely do look at that with contempt

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some gays are like “i’m going to dehumanize myself and act like a dog and wear a lock and chain around my neck and serve my alpha master and let him dominate and control various aspects of my life while treating me like a subservient animal. it creates an ideal environment for abusive relationships and self esteem issues to develop but it’s fine bc consent and also bc i think it’s all very sexy. if you question whether this is healthy i will become possessed by the ghost of one of those dead boys from les miserables and post an impossibly obtuse 12 tweet thread where i wax poetic about how empowering and revolutionary my kink is” listen. enough. please go to therapy kings and stop making unhealthy coping mechanisms parts of your identities

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