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honestly more media should portray the anti aging industry as horrific and decidedly unhuman. it IS body horror it IS grotesque it DOES go against nature. it WILL kill you. yes.

Artober 6: Barbed

not to Discourse but I’m a cis man and my partner is an afab enby and if you call us a “straight couple” I will personally come to your house tie you to a chair and make you listen to a podcast about gender identity on endless repeat

this is specifically @ the people who saw us at pride together and saw them wearing a “THEY/THEM” button and still referred to them as my “girlfriend” you’re all cancelled thanks

it’s called respecting queer people juice

y'know the really amazing thing about the notes on this post - apart from just the sheer number of people who are, like, viscerally terrified of the existence of a person who isn’t cis - is how many of them are responding to things that aren’t here. specifically, you’ll notice I said nothing about my sexuality. I didn’t say I identified as non-het, or that I considered myself part of the LGBTQIA community. on the flip side, I also didn’t give you any reason to believe I’m not bi, or that I’ve never been in a relationship with a cis man. y'all know nothing about my sexuality from this post and you don’t need to and I’m not going to tell you about it now because! this post! was not! about me!

it was about respecting my partner’s identity. and the fact that they don’t get that respect from people in the exact community that they should be able to count on getting it from.

ie, you.

they are not het or cis, and no relationship they are in will ever be a “straight relationship” because they. are not. het. or. cis.

everyone in the notes gatekeeping me because I’m “not oppressed”? I never said I was. the person you’re really attacking and invalidating by shitting on this post is them, a pansexual nonbinary person who is unerasably queer.

huh. it’s almost as if the whole “we can’t let straight men use queerness to worm their way into our community” discourse is just an excuse to hate trans people, isn’t it.

I reblog this every time I see it–

little update on this post 7 years later:

this person and I got married. then things got bad. they became controlling, selfish, manipulative. they were always angry. I learned a couple years in that they had a borderline diagnosis they’d refused to acknowledge or treat, and I’m sure that’s what made them treat me more and more like an enemy. eventually they straight up admitted they were only staying with me for financial reasons. then they made serious threats to stop me from filing for divorce. I was suicidal for a long time. we finally split up a year ago, after they found a new partner with, to be blunt, more money and less self-respect.

I have recently been diagnosed with PTSD. I have regular nightmares about still being trapped with them. I’m so hypervigilant that I needed to put security cameras up around my house.

and every word of my post from 2017 is still true and I will say it with my whole chest because accepting people’s identities is not something you do just for people you love or even just for people you respect. it’s something you do because you want to live in a better world, one where posts like this don’t get big because no one finds anything I said remarkable.

who up feeling like they weren't made for this world

For those of us in the states, a very happy Godzilla day! As a kid, I would have never imagined the big G would ever be accepted and celebrated into our pop culture like today. I’ve made plenty of friends through the community and I can’t wait to see what’s next. Thank you Toho!!

Diet companies won’t tell you this but starving yourself is a lot worse for your health than overeating

Your body has a whoooole process for storing excess fats for later and cleaning out excess nutrients. Your body straight up can not run at all if you give it too little to run on. Don’t make your body pick and choose between essential processes, eat when you’re hungry.

Don’t scroll past this. Kylie Armstrong was diagnosed with breast cancer and these small dimples were the only signs. She posted the image on Facebook so everyone knows that “that breast cancer is not always a detectable lump.” Here’s how Kylie is doing today.

(If you’re not sure how to do a self breast exam, instructions can be found at BreastCancer.org.)

True Lies (1994) directed by James Cameron

we need to make using chatgpt embarrassing bc sorry it really is. what do you mean you can’t write an email

“ikr i only use it for-“ whatever you use chatgpt for is also embarrassing. you do not need the plagiarism machine that lies and evaporates water for anything actually

The Victory of Faith  (1891) Saint George Hare 

From the October 31, 2024 article:

Reminder so it’s absolutely 100% clear: you can lie about who you voted for

Your dad threaten to kick you out if you don’t vote the way he wants you to, and you don’t vote that way? Lie. Or say you didn’t vote.

Your boss asks who you voted for? Lie. If you can ask if they think that’s appropriate to ask.

Your partner? Lie. Your vote is genuinely yours.

Hell, lie here. You don’t need to tell anyone who you voted for, and you don’t need to be honest about it.

I feel like every single person mad about this is telling on themselves so hard.

literally though if you feel like your life is slipping through your fingers and every day goes too fast… try doing hard things, not just taking the easy route, like reading and making art and exercising and cooking a meal from scratch and journaling, doing these things without distraction, without being absorbed on a screen… the time will stretch and you’ll be reminded that life is long and beautiful if you make it so.

Reblogging this with these tags because oh my goodness

To the person I reblogged this from THANK YOU i am now going to stick this on my pinboard where I’m gonna see it every single day

“Life is long and beautiful if you make it so”

before concert ~