Sapiosexual Quotes

“I think i should get love inked on my skin.
Maybe that's the only way i am destined to keep it.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“Words fail to describe
what i feel anymore.
Let me be numb for a while,
let me be sore.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“He was her reason for existence,
She was his ultimate risk.”
― Findinglostsouls

“I have loved this world in ways
it could never love me back.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“Love left us long back,
we just got better.
You at pretending,
Me at hiding.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“My mind gets stronger everyday,
my heart gets weaker with time.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“Some of us cover to protect our bodies
some of us cover to protect our souls
in both cases,
respect their choices.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“Don't focus on the words i write,
pay attention to the ones i don't.
These lines won't tell you much about me,
try to read in between these lines.”
― Anjum Choudhary

“She was a quiet girl, a thoughtful girl. But you never knew what was going in that pretty little head of hers. Whether she was planning a tea party; or a plot to take over the world.”
― N.R. Hart, Poetry and Pearls

“There were plenty of fishes in the pond,
yet i fell in love with a crocodile.”
― Findinglostsouls

“Mental Penetration
isn't about
physical copulation
but a
cerebral stimulation causing ejaculations
of the mind...”
― Sanjo Jendayi

“Even in the broken state,
my mind find ways
to connect with you.”
― Findinglostsouls

“Don’t be a sapiosexual, be a sapiosensual. This is why I say I consider myself a sapiosensual (a term I just made up) because I DON’T LOOK FOR INTELLIGENCE IN A PERSON, I LOOK FOR SOUL, DEPTH, PASSION, VULNERABILITY AND SENSUALITY. All these equates to AUTHENTICITY to me. So, yes, I’m probably snobbish too, I judge a person on how I feel about their authenticity.”
― Lebo Grand

“Wearing perfume or expensive or trendy clothes is often, if not almost always, a subconscious attempt to make up for an uninteresting mind.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

“By definition, love at first sight has nothing to do with the other person’s character or mind.”
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

“Men, in their libidinal depths, are seeking a divinity to serve and adore.

What do I mean by LIBIDINAL DEPTHS?

A man’s libidinal depths is his brain and biology. But most importantly it’s his sensual imagination. Don’t bypass that, ladies, because it’s key to the ultimate purpose of your divine feminine in his life.

Men don’t have a cheating problem. The problem is most women can’t reach deep enough into their libidinal depths because they themselves are not fully tapped into their own divine feminine or their sensuality.

This is my most honest advice to any woman who wants to reach a man deep enough for him to consider her a ‘divinity’ he wants to serve and adore: start by shifting your mindset from ‘conscious’ dating to ‘sensual’ dating. (No, I didn’t say ‘sexual’ dating. Read that again, please).

Conscious dating is when you’re in your head space a lot more than you’re in your heart space and body. You can’t genuinely tap into his libidinal depths if you’re more in your head space.

Conscious dating is usually for hypergamous women. It’s a ‘conscious’ hunt for bigger and better options.

Sadly, this kind of dating is deficient of substance and generally soul depleting. It’s like dating someone who just wants to eat, have a good time, and then expect a marriage proposal. Kind’a superficial, don’t you think?

I think there’s a huge need for sapiosexual women in the dating world today. I actually have an even better term for it. I’ve coined it ‘sapioSENSUAL’. The prefix sapio- comes from the Latin verb sapere, meaning “to be wise” or “to have sense.”

Dating a sapioSENSUAL woman is a huge turn ON. That’s what men (like me), in their libidinal depths, want and are more than willing to commit to long-term.

And ladies, this far transcends a man’s sexual urges. As I often say, you can’t just bring your body, you have to bring your mind and spirit too. This trips a lot of women who are used to ‘conscious’ dating.

Dating a sapioSENSUAL is the future. It requires you to be constantly working on cultivating your sensual depth. Newsflash...

DEPTH IS THE NEW WORTH. #DeepCallsUntoDeep

So ladies, you have to come into the deep if you’re really serious about catching a BIG fish.”
― Lebo Grand