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- Bullying
Parents can help with bullying by supporting their child and involving the authorities to find solutions.
- Child abuse - reporting procedures
Any person who believes, on reasonable grounds, that a child needs protection can notify Child Protection.
- Child Protection Service
The Victorian Child Protection Service provides child-centred, family-focused services to protect children and young people who are at risk of significant harm.
- Family violence - tips for children and young people
Children and young people are not to blame for violence at home, it's not your fault and it's not a special secret
- Parenting support to help prevent abuse
There is a range of non-government agencies available to help families under stress in caring for their children.
- Recognising when a child is at risk
Too many children are physically, sexually and emotionally abused and when this happens, it is up to adults to speak up.
- Animals and child safety
Children should always be closely supervised near animals and taught how to behave safely around pets.
- Bicycle safety and children
As they grow and develop, and with the help of adults, children become increasingly aware of how they can manage their own safety and become safer road and bicycle users.
- Body image – tips for parents
Give your child opportunities to appreciate their body for what it can do, rather than what it looks like.
- Bullying
Parents can help with bullying by supporting their child and involving the authorities to find solutions.
- Water safety for children
Toddlers are most at risk of drowning because they are mobile and curious but don't understand the danger of water.
- Child safety – at home
The best way to reduce the risk of injury to children is to remove a potentially dangerous item or add a safety product.
- Child safety and injury prevention
By making a few practical changes to your home, you can dramatically reduce the risk of injury to your child.
- Child safety in the car
Taking care to restrain children correctly while travelling in a car is the best way to prevent injuries.
- Farm safety – children
Children who live on farms are at greater risk of injury and death than their parents or other farm workers.
- Playgrounds and child safety
Play environments can be safe and beneficial for your child. With proper planning, you can make sure your child gets plenty of playtime activity.
- Poisoning and child safety
Call the Poisons Information Centre on 13 11 26 immediately if you suspect your child has been poisoned, given the wrong medicine or the wrong dose of medicine.
- Road and traffic safety for children
As they grow and develop, and with the help of adults, children become increasingly aware of how they can manage their own safety, and become safer road users.
- Autism spectrum disorder (autism)
ASD is a complex disorder that affects a person's ability to interact with the world around them.
- Autism – tips for parents
Autism spectrum disorder is a lifelong condition, but you are not on your own and there are plenty of professionals and groups who can help.
- Cognitive disability and sexuality
People with cognitive disability can express their sexuality in satisfying ways.
- Disability - schooling choices
If your child has a disability, you need to consider extra issues when your child starts school.
- Disability and sexuality
Sexuality is a key part of human nature. Expressing sexuality in satisfying ways is important for everyone, including people with a disability. Some people with disability may need additional support, education or services to enjoy healthy sexuality and relationships.
- Down syndrome and family support
For a person with Down syndrome, being included in all aspects of family life can lead to a successful life within the community.
- Down syndrome and health
There are a number of significant health and medical issues that are more common in people with Down syndrome.
- Down syndrome and learning
You should focus on what your child with Down syndrome can do, rather than what they can't do.
- Sex and chronic illness
Sexuality is a key part of human nature. Expressing sexuality in satisfying ways is important for everyone, including people with a disability. Some people with disability may need additional support, education or services to enjoy healthy sexuality and relationships.
- Abdominal pain in children
Children may feel stomach pain for a range of reasons and may need treatment.
- Allergies explained
Allergy occurs when the body overreacts to a 'trigger' that is harmless to most people.
- Anxiety and fear in children
You can help your child overcome anxiety by taking their fears seriously and encouraging them to talk about their feelings.
- Asthma in childhood - triggers (video)
Parents and children talk about some of the factors that can cause a child's asthma to flare up.
- Asthma, children and smoking
Exposure to second-hand smoke increases the risk of children developing asthma and provokes more frequent asthma in children with asthma.
- Back pain in children
Children with back pain may grow into adults with chronic bad backs, so it is important to encourage sensible back care.
- Bedwetting
Bedwetting is a problem for many children and punishing them for it will only add to their distress.
- Behavioural disorders in children
Untreated behavioural disorders in children may mean they grow up to be dysfunctional adults.
- Bronchiolitis
Bronchiolitis is a common chest infection in babies under 6 months of age
- Chest infections
A chest infection affects your lungs, either in the larger airways (bronchitis) or in the smaller air sacs (pneumonia).
- Chickenpox
Chickenpox is highly contagious, but it is generally mild and gets better without the need for special treatment.
- Children and vomiting
Mild vomiting is normal in most babies and improves over time.
- Children's feet and shoes
A child learning to walk receives important sensory information from the soles of their feet, and shoes can make walking more difficult.
- Choking
Don't slap a choking person on the back while they are upright - gravity may cause the object to slip further down their windpipe.
- Colds
Cold viruses are spread by sneezing, coughing and hand contact.
- Colic
Caring for a crying baby with colic can be stressful, so take some time out to calm down.
- Constipation and children
A healthy diet, plenty of fluids, exercise and regular toilet habits can help relieve constipation in children
- Coughing and wheezing in children
Coughing and wheezing in babies can be distressing for you and your baby, but in most cases symptoms can be relieved at home.
- Cradle cap
Cradle cap is not contagious and it is not caused by poor hygiene or bad parenting.
- Croup
Croup is a viral infection of the throat and windpipe that causes noisy breathing, a hoarse voice and a harsh, barking cough.
- Cysts
Cysts may be as small as a blister or large enough to hold litres of fluid.
- Dental anxiety and phobia
Dental anxiety is common, but there are ways to help you manage it. Talk to your dentist about that strategies that are right for you.
- Dental treatment
Modern techniques mean that dental and oral health treatment is almost always painless.
- Depression explained
The most important thing is to recognise the signs and symptoms and seek support.
- Ear infections
It is estimated that around four out of five children will experience a middle ear infection at least once.
- Epilepsy in children
Children with epilepsy generally have seizures that respond well to medication, and they enjoy a normal and active childhood.
- Feet - problems and treatments
Correctly fitted shoes help you avoid foot and leg pain or injury.
- Fever - febrile convulsions
A febrile convulsion is a fit that occurs in children when they have a high fever.
- Food allergy and intolerance
Food allergy is an immune response, while food intolerance is a chemical reaction.
- Gastroenteritis in children
Gastroenteritis is common in young children and spreads easily. See your doctor if your child is vomiting often, not drinking, showing signs of dehydration or has blood in their poo.
- Growing pains
Growing pains may cause a lot of pain but they are harmless and can respond to simple treatments.
- Hand, foot and mouth disease
Good personal hygiene is essential to prevent the spread of hand, foot and mouth disease to others, both for those infected and their carers.
- Head lice (nits)
No product can prevent head lice, but regular checks can help prevent the spread.
- Hearing problems in children
The earlier that hearing loss is identified in children, the better for the child?s language, learning and overall development.
- Immunisation history statements for children
By law, parents or guardians must provide an Immunisation History Statement when enrolling children in any childcare service, kindergarten or primary school in Victoria.
- Immunisations - vaccinations in Victoria, Australia (video)
The immunisation program in Victoria may be different than other countries, and individuals who have moved to Victoria from overseas may need catch-up immunisations.
- Jaundice in babies
If your baby is full-term and healthy, mild jaundice is nothing to worry about and will resolve by itself within a week or so.
- Lactose intolerance
Symptoms of lactose intolerance include bloating, gas, abdominal pain and diarrhoea.
- Melissa's story (video)
Melissa shares her story of how her baby caught chickenpox at 5 weeks old.
- Meningococcal disease
Meningococcal disease is an uncommon but serious illness that usually takes the form of a blood infection (septicaemia) or infection of the membranes covering the brain and spinal cord (meningitis).
- Nappy rash
Most babies get nappy rash at some stage, no matter how well they are cared for.
- Obesity in children - causes
Once children are overweight, it takes a lot of effort for them to return to a healthy weight.
- Obesity in children - management
If your child is overweight, you can help by making healthier lifestyle choices for yourself.
- Oral conditions - young children
Oral conditions such as mouth ulcers and oral thrush can happen to young babies and infants.
- Pain management (acute) - children
If you think your child is in pain, always see your doctor for diagnosis and treatment.
- Pinworms
Despite the unsavoury reputation, a pinworm infection (worms) is relatively harmless and easily treated.
- Tooth decay - young children
Every child is at risk of tooth decay, but good feeding habits and oral care can help prevent decay in baby teeth.
- Whooping cough (Pertussis)
The major symptom of whooping cough is a severe cough, which is often followed by a 'whooping' sound.
- Body image – tips for parents
Give your child opportunities to appreciate their body for what it can do, rather than what it looks like.
- Bullying
Parents can help with bullying by supporting their child and involving the authorities to find solutions.
- Children and shyness
If your child's shyness is especially debilitating, you may like to consider professional help from a counsellor or psychologist.
- Children and sibling rivalry
Sibling rivalry is a common problem, particularly among children who are the same sex and close together in age.
- Discipline and children
Disciplining your child means teaching them responsible behaviour and self-control.
- Family conflict
It is normal to disagree with each other from time to time and occasional conflict is part of family life.
- Internet addiction
Internet addiction refers to the compulsive need to spend a lot of time on the Internet, to the point where relationships, work and health suffer.
- Partying safely – tips for parents
With a few simple plans in place, a good time can be had by all at a teenage party – even the parents.
- Peer pressure
Peer groups can be a very positive influence on your teenager's life.
- Talking to children and young people about relationships, sex and sexuality
How parents and carers can talk to children about relationships, sex and sexuality. Includes - how and when to start, topics at different ages and stages, teenage sex, school safety and support.
- Teenagers and communication
Accept that your adolescent may have a different view of the world and respect their opinions.
- Young children and communication
Children thrive with words of encouragement and praise.
- Adoption
Adoption can give a secure family life to children who, for various reasons, can’t live with their birth family.
- Empty nest syndrome
The grief of empty nest syndrome often goes unrecognised, because an adult child moving out of home is seen as a normal, healthy event.
- Foster care
Foster care is temporary care of children up to 18 years by trained, assessed and accredited foster carers.
- Kinship care
Kinship care is the care provided by relatives or a member of a child's social network when a child cannot live with their parents.
- Parenting when you’re a foster carer
As a foster carer, you are providing a safe, supportive home for a child or young person who can’t live with their family of origin. You may face challenges that other parents don’t have to confront.
- Permanent care
After experiencing abuse, neglect or rejection, many children are slow to put their trust in anyone.
- Single parenting
In single-parent households, issues such as holidays or major family purchases are more likely to be decided with the children.
- Surrogacy
Surrogacy is a form of assisted reproductive treatment (ART) in which a woman carries a child within her uterus on behalf of another person or couple.
- Death of a baby
Miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death is a shattering event for those expecting a baby. Grief and anxiety about subsequent pregnancies are common in these circumstances but counselling can help.
- Grief – support services
People who have support from family and friends are less likely to suffer poor health after bereavement and loss.
- Grief and children
It can be difficult to talk to a child about death, but it is important to be honest with them.
- Recent arrivals, asylum seekers and family support services
Provides an overview of family support programs and health services available to refugees and asylum seekers living in Victoria.
- Sudden unexpected death in infants (SUDI and SIDS)
You can reduce your baby's risk of sudden unexpected death by providing a safe sleeping environment and avoiding tobacco smoke.
- Trauma - reaction and recovery
It is normal to have strong emotional or physical reactions after a distressing or frightening event, and help is available.
- Trauma and children - newborns to two years
Babies and toddlers can be as affected by trauma as any other family member.
- Trauma and children - two to five years
Preschoolers may not have the words but will show their distress at traumatic events through changes in behaviour and functioning.
- Trauma and children – tips for parents
Tell your child the facts about a distressing or frightening experience using language they can understand.
- Trauma and families
When a family is affected by trauma, everyone will react in a different way.
- Trauma and primary school age children
Children look to their parents or carers to judge how to deal with a crisis.
- Trauma and teenagers - tips for parents
Teenagers may turn to friends rather than parents for support in times of trauma and distress.
- Trauma and teenagers – common reactions
A teenager may be deeply upset by a traumatic event, but not share their feelings with their parents.
- Youth suicide – the warning signs
All suicide threats are serious. You don't have to be a trained professional to help a person contemplating suicide.
- Alcohol facts
Learn all about alcohol - includes standard drink size, health risks and effects, how to keep track of your drinking, binge drinking, how long it takes to leave the body, tips to lower intake.
- Doctors (GP) – how to make a complaint
If you feel uneasy about the conduct of your doctor, it may be a warning sign that something is wrong.
- Family conflict
It is normal to disagree with each other from time to time and occasional conflict is part of family life.
- Happy families
It might be valuable to occasionally evaluate the dynamics of your family to ensure that everyone is as happy as they could be.
- Parenthood and your relationship
The birth of your first child can significantly change your relationship with your partner and may impact on other relationships.
- Immunisation – deciding which vaccines you need
Everyone's immunisation needs are different and are influenced by your health, lifestyle, age and occupation.
- Parenting and stress
It is important to manage feelings like anger and frustration so that you can enjoy parenting.
- Postnatal depression (PND)
Postnatal depression can happen either a few days or weeks after the birth, with a slow or sudden onset.
- Postnatal exercise
It is important to consult with your doctor or midwife before embarking on any postnatal exercise program - you may need more time than you think to heal from childbirth.
- Reduce your risk of early death
You can dramatically reduce your risk of early death by making a few simple lifestyle changes.
- Smoking - the financial cost
If you want to quit smoking, think about how much of your weekly income is going up in smoke.
- My Health, Learning and Development book (green book)
My Health and Development Record is designed for parents to keep and record their child's milestones, health, growth, development and immunisations.
- Maternal and child health - visit 2 - two week visit
This is your two week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 3 - four week visit
This is your four week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 4 - eight week visit
This is your eight week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 5 - four month visit
This is your four month key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 6 - eight month visit
This is your sixth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 7 - twelve month visit
This is your seventh key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 8 - eighteen month visit
This is your eighth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 9 - two year visit
When your child turns two, it is time for their second from last key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Maternal and child health – visit 10 - three and a half year visit
When your child turns three-and-a-half, it is time for their final key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Children and health services
There is a range of subsidised and free health services, including services for mental health and dental health, available for children in Victoria.
- Family and child support services
There are many government funded family support services available to help parents and young people deal with family issues.
- Maternal and Child Health services
Your local Maternal and Child Health (MCH) service will be a great source of support after your baby is born.
- Happy families
It might be valuable to occasionally evaluate the dynamics of your family to ensure that everyone is as happy as they could be.
- My Health, Learning and Development book (green book)
My Health and Development Record is designed for parents to keep and record their child's milestones, health, growth, development and immunisations.
- Parenting services
Parenting is one of the most important tasks we undertake but it doesn't always come naturally.
- Maternal and child health - visit 1 - first visit at home
This is your first key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Parenthood and your relationship
The birth of your first child can significantly change your relationship with your partner and may impact on other relationships.
- Maternal and child health - visit 2 - two week visit
This is your two week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 3 - four week visit
This is your four week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 4 - eight week visit
This is your eight week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 6 - eight month visit
This is your sixth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 7 - twelve month visit
This is your seventh key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 8 - eighteen month visit
This is your eighth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 9 - two year visit
When your child turns two, it is time for their second from last key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Maternal and child health – visit 10 - three and a half year visit
When your child turns three-and-a-half, it is time for their final key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Parenting children through puberty and adolescence
Puberty is a time of great change for a young person and their parents.
- Children – keeping them active
A young child is naturally active, so build upon their inclinations to use their body.
- Children's diet - fruit and vegetables
If you eat and enjoy fruit and vegetables every day, your child may eventually follow your lead.
- Dr Margaret's Story (video)
Access to vaccines has changed lives and protects our children from crippling diseases such as polio.
- Eating disorders in children and young people
Eating disorders are on the increase in children and young people. Identifying the signs and seeking early treatment is the best way to begin the journey to recovery.
- Immunisation – deciding which vaccines you need
Everyone's immunisation needs are different and are influenced by your health, lifestyle, age and occupation.
- Obesity in children - management
If your child is overweight, you can help by making healthier lifestyle choices for yourself.
- Parent's guide for active girls
Physical activity is an important part of health and wellbeing, and girls should remain active as they grow up.
- Soft drinks, juice and sweet drinks - children
Encourage children to drink and enjoy water. Sweet drinks such as juice, cordial and soft drinks may cause health problems for children if consumed in large amounts.
- Talking to children and young people about relationships, sex and sexuality
How parents and carers can talk to children about relationships, sex and sexuality. Includes - how and when to start, topics at different ages and stages, teenage sex, school safety and support.
- Youth suicide – the warning signs
All suicide threats are serious. You don't have to be a trained professional to help a person contemplating suicide.
- Children and health services
There is a range of subsidised and free health services, including services for mental health and dental health, available for children in Victoria.
- Community health services
Community health services are publicly funded and offer a range of health services to local residents.
- Early Parenting Centres support families
Early Parenting Centres help families whose children have sleep, feeding or other difficulties.
- Early support for a child with disabilities
For children diagnosed with a disability, getting the support they need as early as possible will give them the best chance of minimising the long-term effects of the disability.
- Family and child support services
There are many government funded family support services available to help parents and young people deal with family issues.
- Maternal and child health - visit 1 - first visit at home
This is your first key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 3 - four week visit
This is your four week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 4 - eight week visit
This is your eight week key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 5 - four month visit
This is your four month key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse – there are 10 visits in total from birth to when your child is three and a half years.
- Maternal and child health - visit 6 - eight month visit
This is your sixth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 7 - twelve month visit
This is your seventh key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 8 - eighteen month visit
This is your eighth key age and stage visit with a maternal and child health nurse in your local area. Maternal and child health nurses work in partnership with families to care for babies and young children until they start school. The service is free for all Victorian families.
- Maternal and child health - visit 9 - two year visit
When your child turns two, it is time for their second from last key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Maternal and child health – visit 10 - three and a half year visit
When your child turns three-and-a-half, it is time for their final key age and stage appointment with your maternal and child health nurse.
- Parenting children through puberty and adolescence
Puberty is a time of great change for a young person and their parents.
- Parenting support to help prevent abuse
There is a range of non-government agencies available to help families under stress in caring for their children.
- Recent arrivals, asylum seekers and family support services
Provides an overview of family support programs and health services available to refugees and asylum seekers living in Victoria.
- Relationship support services
You may need outside help to resolve problems and ensure your relationship stays healthy and strong.
- Talking to children and young people about relationships, sex and sexuality
How parents and carers can talk to children about relationships, sex and sexuality. Includes - how and when to start, topics at different ages and stages, teenage sex, school safety and support.