Relationships What Is Physical Attraction? By Sanjana Gupta Updated on November 21, 2023 Reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by mental health professionals. Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by Ivy Kwong, LMFT Print martin-dm/E+/Getty Table of Contents View All Table of Contents Why Physical Attraction Is Important Factors That Contribute to Physical Attraction Signs of Physical Attraction Physical Attraction and Relationships Trending Videos Close this video player Physical attraction refers to the fact that an individual finds another person appealing, says Sabrina Romanoff, PsyD, a clinical psychologist and professor at Yeshiva University. "It is a physical energy that is the result of the chemistry between two people." Physical attraction is often instant, and it can contribute to feelings of excitement, increased energy levels, and a craving for physical connection upon seeing someone for the first time. Instant physical attraction and the ensuing emotional response contribute to what people call "love at first sight." At a Glance Physical attraction is often the spark that inspires a connection between people. Many factors can play a role, including facial features, physical dimensions, facial expressions, and non-visual cues. Evolutionary and sociocultural factors also play a part. If you think someone is attracted to you (or vice versa), you might notice more smiling, eye contact, nervousness, and excitement when you are around them.While physical attraction can draw you together, other factors also play an important role in building lasting bonds. Why Physical Attraction Is Important Physical attraction is often the first thing to grab our interest when we are looking for potential partners. For example, when you’re scrolling through profiles on a dating app, the first thing you probably look at is the person’s picture. If they seem attractive to you at first glance, you may explore their profile further and then decide whether you want to communicate with them; however, if their picture doesn’t pique your interest in that split second, you probably move on to the next one. Similarly, when you enter a room, such as a restaurant, bar, office, or conference room, you probably do a quick scan of the room. If someone seems physically attractive to you, your eyes may linger on them, or keep going back to them, and you may find yourself interested in what they’re doing or saying. That initial physical attraction is often what grabs our interest so that we feel inspired to get to know the other person more. How to Use the 'Marilyn Monroe Effect' to Exude Confidence Factors That Contribute to Physical Attraction These are some of the factors that play a role in physical attractiveness: Facial features: According to a 2015 study, facial features and facial symmetry are the most important determinants of physical attractiveness. Physical dimensions: Research studies also show that apart from facial features, other anthropometric factors such as physical dimensions and ratios play a role in physical attractiveness as well. Facial expressions: The face typically plays the most important part in social interaction, making facial expressions another important component in physical attractiveness, according to a 2021 study. For instance, the study notes that smiling signals intelligence and trustworthiness and increases physical attractiveness. Non-visual cues: A 2015 study shows that other non-visual cues such as voice and scent also contribute to physical attractiveness. Mere Exposure Effect: How Familiarity Breeds Attraction Evolutionary Factors Evolutionary psychology has a controversial theory about physical attractiveness. It suggests that since physical attractiveness helps people attract mates, evolutionary factors play a role in what people consider attractive. Evolutionary psychology studies note that certain physical features and dimensions are considered physically attractive since those are desirable qualities in a mate from a biological and reproductive standpoint. Such characteristics include: YouthfulnessPhysical healthMental and emotional well-beingStrengthFertility For instance, evolutionary psychology studies conclude that a body mass index (BMI) and waist-to-hip ratio (WHR) within a particular range of those scales may be considered more attractive than a BMI or WHR outside those ranges. According to evolutionary researchers, this is because having too much body fat is associated with negative health outcomes such as heart disease, diabetes, and restricted movement, whereas not having enough muscle and body fat is linked to a lack of strength and reduced fertility and child-bearing ability. However, there is not always a correlation between what is the healthiest physiologically speaking and what people find the most attractive. Furthermore, BMI is a dated, biased measure that doesn’t account for several factors, such as body composition, ethnicity, race, gender, and age. Sociocultural Factors Factors such as society, culture, and historical period can also play a role in determining what’s considered attractive and unattractive. In other words, if a culture favors certain body types over others, these preferences can affect individuals. People may internalize these standards and pursue them, sometimes to their health or well-being detriment. For instance, they may pursue a BMI that is below what is considered healthy, to meet sociocultural standards of size. One study found that participants perceived women with low and physiologically unhealthy BMIs as more attractive compared to women with healthy BMIs. Another study found that participants from urban areas thought images of women with lower BMIs were more attractive compared to participants from rural areas who felt women with higher BMIs were more attractive. Weight stigma and the thin ideal can play a role in determining what people view as attractive and unattractive regardless of what is physiologically healthy. Signs of Physical Attraction Physical attraction is characterized by physiological changes in the body, such as a release of the chemicals dopamine and norepinephrine in the brain, says Romanoff. "Attraction also activates the orbitofrontal cortex of the brain, which is the part of your brain that processes sensory rewards," Romanoff explains. These physiological changes can trigger emotional and behavioral changes. These are some of the signs of physical attraction, according to Romanoff: Smiling when around the person Maintaining prolonged eye contact with them Feeling nervous at the prospect of interacting with them Unconsciously mirroring their body movements, expressions, speech, and postures Having reduced appetite and difficulty sleeping Feeling unsteady, ecstatic, and animated What Happens When We Feel Romantic Chemistry, and How Much Does It Matter? Physical Attraction and Relationships Physical attraction is an important component in romantic relationships. It is often the starting point of relationships, helping people connect with each other and build an emotional attachment. Sabrina Romanoff, PsyD Physical attraction is important because it leads to greater physical intimacy and connection, helping partners feel more bonded and attached to each other. — Sabrina Romanoff, PsyD Physical attraction also helps people maintain relationships. According to a 2015 study, being physically attracted to one’s partner is linked to greater marriage satisfaction and longevity. However, healthy relationships shouldn’t be based on physical attraction alone. Couples should have a strong and widespread foundation for their relationship—this includes an alignment of values, goals, and priorities, says Romanoff. "If partners are not connected in these other realms, their physical attraction might not be able to sustain a more serious relationship," she explains. What This Means For You Physical attraction is often a primal, instinctive reaction to another person, based on factors such as their appearance, expressions, voice, and scent. 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J Pers Soc Psychol. 2014;106(3):418-428. doi:10.1037/a0034424 Additional Reading Brierley ME, Brooks KR, Mond J, Stevenson RJ, Stephen ID. The body and the beautiful: health, attractiveness and body composition in men’s and women’s bodies. PLoS One. 2016;11(6):e0156722. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0156722 By Sanjana Gupta Sanjana is a health writer and editor. Her work spans various health-related topics, including mental health, fitness, nutrition, and wellness. See Our Editorial Process Meet Our Review Board Share Feedback Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! What is your feedback? Helpful Report an Error Other Submit