What Happens in Anger Management Classes?

Anger management class can teach how to calm your mind and your body.

 

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Anger management classes are psychoeducation interventions that focus on helping people learn how to identify anger triggers and manage complicated feelings in a healthy, productive way. If you feel like you're anger is out of control, taking one of these classes may help you feel more empowered and in control.

Whether you’ve been mandated to attend anger management or are interested in attending a class on your own accord, you might wonder what to expect or how it could help. While there are many different ways a class might be led, anger management classes aim to teach people the skills they need to regulate their emotions and calm themselves down.

At a Glance

Does anger management work? Uncontrolled anger can take a serious toll on your health and relationships, but learning how to manage it effectively can reduce your risks. Learning more about anger management classes, including what they do and how they work, can help you get more out of the experience.

Attending an Anger Management Class

Attending a class may feel a little intimidating at first. But, you could learn valuable life skills that could help you gain better control over your emotions so anger doesn’t cause problems in your life.

Who Takes Anger Management Classes?

Anger management classes may be taken by anyone who wants to get a better handle on their anger. A few examples of the type of people you might encounter in an anger management class include:

  • A parent who yells at their kid
  • A partner who is emotionally abusive during arguments
  • A supervisor who blows up at employees

Anger Management May Be Court-Ordered

Sometimes, anger management classes are court-ordered. A judge may order a violent offender to complete an anger management program. Or, a judge may mandate that a parent attend anger management class as part of a custody agreement.

Anger management classes are sometimes used in residential settings. People with traumatic brain injuries, for example, may attend anger management classes while in a psychiatric setting.

Anger Management Classes vs. Individual Therapy

Many anger management classes are conducted as educational classes rather than group therapy. Usually, a trained instructor walks participants through a series of anger management strategies. Then, armed with new strategies participants can work to diminish their aggressive behavior and reduce the anger in their daily lives.

Keep in mind that anger is a normal emotion. Anger only becomes an issue when it is expressed in unhealthy ways. Consequently, good anger management classes are geared toward managing anger not learning how to hold it in.

In short, anger management teaches people how to identify their anger and respond in healthier ways. For this reason, it's important to view anger management as an opportunity to optimize your well-being and improve your relationships rather than as something punitive—even if it's court-ordered.

Anger Therapy

Sometimes, people who are attending an anger management group also may require individual anger therapy. A person who has experienced past trauma, for example, may benefit from having a therapist help them process their trauma while simultaneously learning anger management skills through a class setting.

Anger management also can be taught in individual therapy. Individual therapy offers more flexibility in terms of scheduling.

Plus, the participant can receive more individual attention and privacy. However, therapy typically costs more than a class and does not contain the added benefit of learning from other people in a group setting.

Hearing what works for another person or watching a fellow classmate role-play a situation may lead to new understanding.

What Do You Learn in Anger Management Classes?

There are different types of curriculum used in anger management classes. But, most of them are based on cognitive behavioral therapy strategies.

The cognitive behavioral approach to anger management involves teaching participants how to recognize the warning signs that their anger is rising.

Some other tactics that you might learn in anger management classes include:

  • Relaxation techniques: Participants are also taught relaxation strategies, like deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation, and calming techniques or how to make behavioral changes.
  • Cognitive reframing: They’re also taught how to change the thoughts that fuel their angry feelings, which are the cognitive changes they will make.
  • Communication skills: Anger management may also help people learn how to listen first and take a moment before they respond. This can help them learn more about what the other person is saying before reacting.

Overall, these strategies can be adapted for various groups, including adolescents, individuals with substance abuse issues, and even parents.

How Long Does Anger Management Last?

Depending on the type of curriculum and the needs of the group, anger management classes may range from eight sessions to 28 sessions. Classes usually take place on a weekly basis and they are usually one to two hours in length.

Classes Are Small

Classes are usually fairly small. For instance, some groups may include only 10 people at a time. Completion of the class may result in a "diploma" or certificate of completion.

You May Have Homework

Usually, members are given a workbook with weekly homework assignments. These assignments give participants an opportunity to practice the skills they’ve learned.

Does Anger Management Work?

The good news is that anger management classes appear to be an effective way to help people learn to regulate their emotions and build greater self-control.

One study found that an anger management program was effective in decreasing anger levels. It also helped participants improve their problem-solving and communication skills.

Better Communication Skills

Improving your ability to respond to stressful or frustrating situations in a healthy and productive way is one of the primary benefits of anger management. You will learn how to be assertive without being aggressive or intimidating. And, in the end, your relationships and your well-being will improve.

Better Well-Being

Not only does anger management teach you how to communicate your needs in a healthy way, but it also will help you maintain better health. It may even help you curb the side effects of unhealthy anger, like headaches, sleeplessness, and stomach issues.

Better Coping Skills

Additionally, learning to manage anger effectively reduces the likelihood that you will turn to drugs or alcohol as a way of coping with stress, frustration, and anger. One study found that a CBT-based anger management treatment was associated with significantly less alcohol use.

Instead of using maladaptive coping skills when you are angry, you will know how to reduce these feelings in healthy and productive ways.

Getting Anger Management Help

Attending an anger management class could be beneficial if you struggle to control your anger or find that you lash out at others and later regret your words or actions. It could help you gain better control over your anger and learn how to interact with others more productively.

Finding an appropriate class can feel overwhelming when you aren’t sure where to look. But if you think you could benefit from an anger management class, start by talking to your physician.

Your doctor may be able to help you locate a class or refer you to a mental health agency that can assist you in finding resources. You also can contact your local community center or hospital. They may offer classes or may be able to direct you to another resource in your community.

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Additional Reading
Amy Morin

By Amy Morin, LCSW
Amy Morin, LCSW, is a psychotherapist and international bestselling author. Her books, including "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do," have been translated into more than 40 languages. Her TEDx talk,  "The Secret of Becoming Mentally Strong," is one of the most viewed talks of all time.