You might be a late bloomer
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You might be a late bloomer

Morgan Freeman was in his early 50s when he finally landed his breakout roles. Copernicus came up with his revolutionary theory of planetary motion in his 60s. Late bloomers are all around us—throughout history, in pop culture, at the helm of business empires—and their seemingly delayed moment of success is a persistent source of fascination.

Older age is often associated with a lull, but the experience of aging doesn’t have to feel inherently limiting. At Stanford University, a program for older adults, mostly in their 50s and 60s, helps them figure out what they want to do post-retirement. Even without the assistance of a cohort and a curriculum, people find their personalities keep shifting, and older populations remain curious and conscientious about how they are spending their lives. “We have a notion that the happiest people are those who have aimed their life toward some goal and then attained it, like winning a championship trophy or achieving renown,” David Brooks writes. “But the best moments of life can be found within the lifelong learning or quest itself.”

Today’s newsletter brings you stories about later-in-life breakthroughs and changes:

Stephanie Bai, associate editor

Carron Montgomery

Award-winning Author, Speaker, Mental Health Expert. I am a Registered Play Therapist, Level II EMDR certified .

1mo

The above article inspired this post, as it deeply resonated with me as a child growing up in the 80s with undiagnosed ADHD. Growing up, I wasn't consciously aware of my differences or deliberately trying to do poorly in school or with various tasks at home. I knew my brain worked differently and felt I wasn't smart enough to meet school expectations. I wasn't disruptive; instead, I became the quiet kid in class who tried to blend into the background and pray I was invisible. Even if I knew the answer, I would forget it when called upon. I came to accept and truly believe I wasn't as bright as others and always felt lost in the crowd. I knew I didn't fit the typical mold, but I wasn't sure where I fit in. Academically and socially, I felt like a floater, and the system made me believe that I could only go so far, and my identity became tied to my kindness and desire to please those around me.Then, I found my passion, purpose, and drive. I was unstoppable. I couldn't learn or read enough about psychology. If someone had told me I would have a successful private practice, write books, and train other professionals in the field one day, I would have fallen over.

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Jyrki Nygren

Chairman Of The Board Of Directors at Freehands Media Group International

2mo

Interesting!

John G.

Software Engineer at NAVAIR

2mo

Hopefully I will win the lottery while I'm still mostly vertical. Be nice to continue traveling the globe and experiencing new cultures.

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