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This week is #internationalwomensday2024 We see a lot of Mother's Day celebrations tacked onto IWD posts which limit their audience. This excludes 1 in women who could be reading but won't as they'll feel excluded, unseen and hurt. ***1 in 5 Women*** who could be excluded by International Women's Day content... 🤔 Here's a few reasons why women are childless not by choice, through no fault of their own. - Poverty - Chronic illness - Unsafe relationship - Male infertility - Not meeting someone who wants to co-parent - Disability - Fears about the climate - Meeting someone to co-parent with and they change their mind - Co-parent doesn't want children - Problems with egg retrieval or storage complications - Unable to afford ongoing embryo storage - Caring for someone during the fertile years - Not realised that female fertility can be a problem after twenties - Addiction and recovery after fertile years - Vasectomy - Widowed - Unable to afford fertility treatment (estimated at £13k per cycle) or it's not available on the NHS in the postcode lottery - Being unable to adopt because of .... not enough money, single, wrong gender, ethnicity, postcode, age, age gap, no garden, dog/cat/pet - Unable to adopt due to trauma from failed IVF or not 'over' fertility issues As Jody Day says in her excellent blog '50 Ways Not To Be a Mother, with apologies to Paul Simon' - "Many people think that the room called childlessness has just two doors: ‘didn’t want’ or ‘couldn’t have’. Those of us who are childless-not-by-choice know that it’s way more complex than that!" When you're creating content this week, think about how to include women who can't have children. We all have caring roles, women are defined by more than motherhood and not all automatically view 10th March as a celebration. We're not mad cat (or dog) ladies and we aren't all rich and carefree. This TEDX talk by Jody is on the lost tribe of childless women, from 6 years ago, but very relevant today. It's well worth your time. https://lnkd.in/exV23Aii

The lost tribe of childless women | Jody Day | TEDxHull

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