Many people chase achievement, assuming it will lead to well-being. They should reverse that order of operations, Arthur Brooks writes. (From 2022)
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Happiness and contentment should not be contingent on achievement or success.
Many people chase achievement, assuming it will lead to well-being. They should reverse that order of operations, Arthur Brooks writes. (From 2022)
If You Want Success, Pursue Happiness
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Founder & Chief Operating Officer at Laskenta Technologies Limited- Leading Tech Company in Sub saharan Africa
Lessons from My Grandfather: Wisdom for Success in Business and Life" by Marc Demetriou offers timeless guidance on achieving success and fulfillment. Here are ten profound insights distilled from the book: 1. Embrace Diligence and Persistence: Success demands unwavering dedication, persistent effort, and resilience in the face of challenges. 2. Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Approach obstacles with optimism, focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. 3. Value Lifelong Learning: Continuously educate yourself and acquire new skills to foster personal and professional growth. 4. Foster Meaningful Connections: Build relationships founded on trust, respect, and mutual support, as they often lead to new opportunities. 5. Uphold Integrity and Honesty: Maintain high ethical standards in all dealings to build a trustworthy reputation crucial for sustained success. 6. Develop Resilience and Adaptability: Navigate life's changes and setbacks with resilience, adapting effectively to new circumstances. 7. Set Clear Goals and Prioritize Effectively: Define goals clearly and prioritize tasks that align with them, ensuring focused efforts and desired outcomes. 8. Give Generously and Support Others: Contribute to others' well-being and community causes to enrich both their lives and your own. 9. Practice Humility and Gratitude: Stay grounded by acknowledging others' contributions and expressing gratitude regularly. 10. Strive for Work-Life Balance: Success encompasses both professional achievements and personal fulfillment, requiring a balanced approach to work and life. These principles, passed down by Marc Demetriou's grandfather, underscore the significance of hard work, integrity, continuous learning, and nurturing relationships in achieving a rewarding and purposeful life.
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🌟 Reflecting on the Essence of Work Ethic (Whose race are we running?) 🏃♂️ Mike Rowe's recent take on work ethic has been buzzing in the internet ether recently, and it's got me thinking 🤔. Without delving into his views, I want to share a different perspective through a famous anecdote. (those that know me well, know I can't resist a good anecdote!) The story, by Nobel laureate Heinrich Böll, centers around a simple fisherman and a well-off tourist. Picture this: a fisherman in a quaint village, done for the day, soaking in the peace. The tourist, puzzled by the fisherman's apparent lack of ambition, questions why he isn't out there fishing more to make more money. 💰 The fisherman says he's got enough for his family's needs. But the tourist, in a burst of entrepreneurial spirit, outlines a grand plan: that he could catch more fish, sell them, and with the profits buy a bigger boat. With a bigger boat, he could catch even more fish and eventually have a fleet of boats. The tourist enthusiastically lays out a detailed business plan, concluding that the fisherman could then retire, relax, and enjoy life.. 🏖 The twist? The fisherman points out he's already living that serene, content life. This tale isn't just a story. It's a mirror reflecting our modern work hustle, the chase for more, often missing out on the joys right in front of us. In our quest for a 'better' future, are we overlooking the happiness that's already ours? Is it just about success and wealth, or is it also about finding balance and cherishing life's simpler moments? 🌿🌺 What do you think? Are we too caught up in the race to notice the finish line might already be beneath our feet? Let's chat in the comments! 🗨️💬 #WorkEthic #LifeBalance #Simplicity #Reflections.
Mike Rowe says 'the days are gone' where work ethic used to be a virtue
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In the hustle and bustle of life, it is easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. We often find ourselves caught up in daily routines, focusing on short-term goals without considering the long-term impact of our efforts. However, there is a compelling philosophy that challenges us to think differently: "I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live." This powerful statement often attributed to George Bernard Shaw, the renowned Irish playwright, invites us to reflect on the true essence of hard work and its profound connection to living a fulfilling life. As I reflect on my life’s journey, I realize that most of my proudest achievements have come not from chasing compliments or accomplishments, but from fully immersing myself in work that I found deeply meaningful and challenging. Challenging work is often perceived to an end, a necessary sacrifice for achieving success and reaching our goals. However, what if we viewed hard work as an integral part of our journey, a way to maximize our potential and make the most out of every moment? When our work aligns with our passions and values, it becomes more meaningful. This sense of purpose drives us to put in the extra effort, knowing that each task we undertake contributes to a larger, more fulfilling life goal. The idea of being “thoroughly used up when we die” is a call to live a life of purpose, passion, and relentless effort. By embracing hard work as a way of life, we unlock the true essence of living fully. So, let us commit to working hard, not just for the sake of success, but to ensure that when our time comes, we can look back and say, "I gave it my all, and I truly lived." Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences on this philosophy in the comments below. How do you find purpose in your work? Let us inspire each other to live fully and be “thoroughly used up” in the best feasible way. #PURPOSE, #HARDWORK, #LIFEPHILOSOPHY, #PURPOSE
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Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "Once I achieve this, I will finally be enough"? A recent video from Jim Carrey sparked some fascinating reflections on this common struggle. Carrey humorously describes himself as a "two-time Golden Globe winner" in every aspect of his life, even in sleep and dreams. He then poignantly adds, "Because then I would be enough." This statement cuts to the heart of a struggle many of us face – the belief that external validation and achievements will finally make us feel complete. But as Carrey implies, this search for fulfillment through accolades and recognition is often "terrible" and ultimately unfulfilling. It's a cycle that can trap us in constant striving, always chasing the next goal or achievement, thinking it will finally bring us peace. In my work as a counselor, I frequently encounter clients grappling with similar issues. They tie their self-worth to external measures of success, believing that once they reach a certain milestone, they'll finally feel "enough." However, true fulfillment and self-acceptance come from within, not from external validation or achievements. Let's reflect on this today. How often do we fall into the trap of thinking our next accomplishment will make us whole? How can we start to cultivate a sense of self-worth that isn't dependent on external factors? Remember, you are already enough, just as you are. #MentalHealth #SelfWorth #Fulfillment #PersonalGrowth
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10 years in Tech Sales 20 more teaching thousands to do the same. But it wasn’t until I brought spirituality to Corporate as a Reiki Master that I tapped into my true power and began helping others find theirs as well.
You aren’t lost. It feels like it because the the map for your career no longer fits your life. Maybe more accurately, you’re no longer sure the map for your career, the one you’ve dutifully, unquestioningly followed for years, is worth the pursuit. Without this map, the same map everyone around you is clutching like a life vest on a sinking ship, you feel for the first time, the weight of directing your own life. Of making your own choices about what you want to do. Of setting your own priorities based on your own values. Values you realize you have continually set aside through the years in the pursuit of a raise, a bonus or a promotion...most of which are counter to the corporate “work ethic” that rewards overwork and overcommitment. You aren't lost. But it feels like you are. Because you slipped off the edge of the boat, strong strokes carrying you away from the security of knowing what to do, only to realize you can’t see the shore. You aren’t even sure if you’re swimming in the right direction. This is what waking up to all that is beyond the boundaries you’ve spent your life living within feels like. At first. But you aren't lost. You are unmoored. And you are right where you need to be in order to listen to your Inner Compass. Bravo.
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The Rituals of Our Youth As children, we were always sent off to school with encouragement to "work hard!" Our parents would remind us not to play too much, read our books, and avoid bad influences - all in hopes that we would apply ourselves diligently in our studies. These farewell rituals ingrained in us the cultural value placed on effort and discipline. Though the exhortations were well-meaning, they left many of us wondering - what exactly constitutes hard work? How is it measured and defined? The Concept of Hard Work Hard work is a nebulous notion often touted as the formula for success. But it means different things in different contexts. Telling a student, bank manager, parent, pet shop owner or president to "work hard" elicits varied interpretations. So how can we bring accountability and transparency to this subjective ideal? The key is operationalizing it into measurable behaviors and outcomes. Defining Hard Work - A Measurable Approach First and foremost, hard work means putting in the time. Tracking hours invested daily and weekly provides a quantitative indicator of effort. Any number of consistent hour workweeks, relative to the demands at hand, demonstrate commitment to what such time is being applied to. Secondly, it requires focused intensity. Minimizing distractions, multitasking and breaks exhibits mental discipline. Completing cognitively demanding tasks despite fatigue signals perseverance. Additionally, hard work involves overcoming challenges. Meeting deadlines in the face of obstacles shows resilience. Tracking rates of completion for tough assignments quantifies grit. Finally, hard work entails results. Whether performance, productivity, skills gained or goals met, output must align to effort. Routinely assessing measurable gains keeps one accountable. In summary, time spent, focused intensity, perseverance and output are key indicators of hard work. By objectively gauging these factors, individuals can benchmark their own efforts on a path of growth while organizations can better recognize diligence. Operationalizing the abstract concept brings clarity. Our parents were right - there are no shortcuts; hard work opens the door to success. Cheers... #hardwork #hardworkpaysoff #operations #metrics #measurement #lessonslearned #parents
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#ToughLove and #LastingLessons: My #Father's #Legacy. The day I lost my father, I was hit with a whirlwind of emotions. Our relationship had been complicated – marked by his strict demeanor and critical nature. As I continue to navigate the complex grief that has followed his passing in 2022, I find myself unpacking not just loss, but a lifetime of challenging interactions. In the months that followed, as I juggled personal turmoil and professional responsibilities, I began to realize that this difficult relationship and its abrupt end were teaching me valuable lessons that extended into my #work life. Reflecting on our bittersweet relationship, I recognized how my father's unyielding standards had inadvertently fostered resilience in me. Now, when faced with harsh criticism or demanding projects at work, I find myself better equipped to persevere and grow from the experience rather than be diminished by it. My priorities have shifted dramatically. The constant drive for perfection that stemmed from seeking his approval has transformed into a more balanced approach. I've learned to differentiate between striving for excellence and an unhealthy pursuit of flawlessness, both in my personal goals and in my expectations of my team at The Other Circle. Perhaps the most profound change has been in my #leadership style. Experiencing the impact of constant criticism firsthand has made me acutely aware of the power of words. I've committed to being the kind of leader who motivates through encouragement and constructive feedback, fostering an environment where team members feel valued and supported. I also have my brother and co-founder Anuraag Gupta to thank for this. My father's passing was a stark reminder of how complex human relationships can be, and how limited our time is to navigate them. It's pushed me to be more intentional in my interactions, to communicate more openly, and to address conflicts directly and compassionately. I figured time is too short to live any other way. And while our relationship was far from perfect, I'm finding ways to grow from the challenges it presented. It's a complex journey of professional and personal development – one I never expected but now value deeply. As I move forward in my career, I carry these lessons with me, striving to turn the difficulties of my past into strengths for my future and for those I lead. PS. This has been one of the hardest posts I've ever written. Yet, I believe many #daughters may have similar journeys with their fathers. I hope this sharing motivates them to cherish at least some parts of these complex relationships before it's too late – no matter how tough the love may have been. PPS: Though I lack conventionally happy photos with my father, this image serves as a poignant reminder of one of the few times he mentioned he was proud of me 😊
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#Motivation #Month Post #2. “RIGHT THINGS will come back to you when you do THINGS RIGHT.” - Myself 😊 #Incompetent, #unskilled, and #unprofessional [unempathetic] people will drag you down at the #workplace, however, you will have to #staystrong. Bad times and bad people will fly away soon. Here are a few self-practiced tips: · #Focus on Your #Goal – Always have a clear goal right in front of you. · #Stay #Professional – People will try to drag you down to their level. Avoid getting drawn into confrontations. · #Create your #OWN #people - Build a support network of trusted colleagues, mentors, and friends for emotional support and guidance. · #Focus on #SelfCare - Engage in activities that reduce stress and help you recharge. · #Stay #Positive and #Resilient: Recognize that setbacks and challenges are part of professional life and opportunities for growth. · #Maintain #Integrity: Uphold your principles and values throughout the ordeal. · Don't Lose #Hope – #Trust yourself and your #destiny. Image Credits: tenor
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