Psychological Safety by Iterum’s Post

As challenging as it can be to give feedback, receiving it can be just as difficult. In cases where receiving feedback feels challenging, remember that since all feedback is based on opinion and perception, not all feedback is helpful or accurate. Just because someone has given you feedback, it doesn’t mean you need to act upon it. Their perspective may be skewed, or in the worst cases, their intention may not be positive. So when you’re receiving feedback, consider: - Is this feedback truthful? - Is this feedback specific and actionable? - Is there positive intent behind it? - Is the person delivering it doing so with care and concern for me? - Is the person delivering this feedback experienced or qualified to do so? - Is this the right time and space for me to receive this feedback? If the answer to any of those questions is no, then you have a right to question or even disregard the feedback. Tom Geraghty was once told to “be less English”. Tom is English, and he rejected that feedback because he can’t, and doesn’t want to, be less English. However, we should also try to resist our natural temptation to defensiveness. Even if some of the answers to the above questions are “no”, there is probably something you can take from the feedback in order to improve or reflect in some way. Great feedback can enhance an already high performing, psychologically safe team, but poorly delivered feedback can destroy psychological safety. Be careful, empathetic and mindful when delivering it. Contracting with people about not just how, but when and if, they’d like to receive feedback is powerful, and kind. And that’s why we continue with teams on this topic. So far, in our work with teams, we’ve found that between 70% and 80% of feedback is not useful, and some of it is even harmful. Only 20%-30% of feedback that people receive is actually useful! And this is often simply because so much feedback is delivered poorly. We deliver a workshop that examines the purpose of feedback, the characteristics of good feedback, traps to avoid, models to use, and practices to employ. We want to make sure that in the world of work, feedback does much more good than harm. Invest in psychological safety. Invest in your people. ---------------------- 💥 We're Psych Safety! 🎯 We make psychological safety real. 🎤 We write about psychological safety in practice. Want more? 👉🏽 Sign up for the weekly newsletter. 🙌 Join the psychological safety community. 🔝 Follow us. www.psychsafety.com

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James Caldwell MSN, MHA, RN, CPPS, CPHQ

Regional Director of Patient Safety (Greater Midwest Region)

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I think even the poorly delivered feedback can provide nuggets of self improvement opportunities.

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