Warrior to Love: Embracing the Present
Throughout my life, I have carried many titles, each one with increasing responsibility. As veterans and first responders, we know what it means to give our all to others—to serve, to protect, to sacrifice. For years, I did the same, constantly pushing forward, never stopping to reflect, and often trying to please everyone around me. It left me empty, apologizing more times than I can count.
But now, as I step into a new phase of life, I have learned that life’s true meaning is found in the present. I am grateful for every experience that has shaped me, and I have finally learned to forgive myself for the past.
One of the greatest honors I hold today is my new title—Grandpa. It’s a role I embrace fully, and it is reminded me of who I am truly meant to be. Yesterday is a lesson, not a sentence. Each day is a new chance to grow, to heal, and to move forward.
A great leader once gave me advice that has stayed with me:
“Life is On-the-Job Training (OJT). Just as you start to know what you are doing; you're thrust into another cycle of life.” – LTG (R) Zanini
As veterans and first responders, many of us are transitioning into new phases of life. It’s not always easy to shift from serving others to focusing on ourselves. But now, I understand that taking care of myself allows me to give more to those I care about. I will no longer pour from an empty cup—I will prioritize my own well-being and give the world what overflows.
To all my brothers and sisters in service, I appreciate the strength of our community. Together, we can continue to support one another and find new purpose on this journey.
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