Marshall Fields’ Post

Hello! We have 2 days left 😬 I'm Marshall Fields, founder of PCHATP and Head Facilitator of Freedom Bridges. 2 days ago, an online giving campaign, Black Philanthropy Week 🌍 was kicked-off. It is an online giving campaign. We would GREATLY 🙏 appreciate your tax-deductible donation! 💰 If you are like me, you've seen how divisive things have become and are becoming. Of course, we have many viewpoints...this is America. The word American is not a race, it's a citizenship where our freedom of speech is protected. Unfortunately, how people express themselves often creates more conflict than resolution, more anger than acceptance. Our words are powerful! 💬 Many topics, especially racism, have caused gaps in our communication leading to gaps in our communities. That's why, 2 years ago, PCHATP partnered with Bridge The Gap Lexington to offer the Freedom Bridges 🌉 training, a program helping build bridges to overcome challenging communications. Our differences don't have to be the end of our unity. 💕 By supporting Freedom Bridges, you'll be providing a unique learning 🎓 experience where groups from the community can come together and learn in a safe place. So I'm talking to you, those among us who've felt that we can and should do more to improve how we interact when thrust into situations with diverse mindsets. We help develop emotional and situational intelligence, letting individuals learn about history through a lens that connects, instead of separates us, how to be mindful of our emotions, increasing the likelihood of positive outcomes. I've spent years helping to reach and teach individuals and organizations different ways to think about communication 💬 and the history that led to how we communicate. I know, the right conversation at the right time can end conflict, renew faith, and create space for peace despite our differences. 🤝 Please help us bring Freedom Bridges to communities and provide a better way for us to engage and understand one another. Any amount is appreciated. Your support will enhance the quality of life for everyone who attends the training. It's not about politics, it's about people. It's not about compliance, it's about compassion. Many of us are waiting for a bridge 🌉 we can cross to new ways of interacting and seeing one another. Now, more than ever, we need positive communication 💬 habits and thought processes. With your support, Freedom Bridges can continue to provide healthy online and in-person training experiences at no cost. 🌍We can change the world…by changing how we talk to it.🌍 You can support us by visiting www.lexbpw.org or the direct link: https://lnkd.in/ePGG75_E Thank you in advance for your support! 🙏 #bgcf #bluegrasscommunityfoundation #freedombridges #communicationcompass #emotionalcompass

There is a reason why "Tactful Confrontation = Intact Organizations" is on the wall in my office. It's more than the truth, it is a reminder to consistently work on how I communicate. Our comfort level in handling conflict directly reflects our ability to converse and share perspectives. If you can move your focus from obsessing over how you feel and amplify your inner voice and ask: - Why do I feel the way I do? - Why is it so hard for me to address this issue? You will reach a whole new level where you can: - Accept the expressions of others without expectations - Express yourself genuinely, way without assuming acceptance Always keep this in mind because the truth has no expiration date! #compasscommunications #pchatp #innerpeace #innerstrength #innerchildhealing #emotionalcompass

There is no such thing as a perfect conversation, technically speaking. It is impossible to: - Say the perfect thing every time - Respond the perfect way every time - To hear what was said the exact way it was intended every time That being said, adjusting how you enter conversations can help tremendously. What's your agenda? Better yet, what if you only had one purpose - understanding the best way to move forward? We can move closer to perfection through internal reflection. For those brave enough to stop: - Putting their feelings on a pedestal - Seeking to validate what you already believe If you can start elevating your self-awareness, I promise some serious awakenings of potential, peace, and prosperity are in store! If you can move your focus from obsessing over how you feel and amplify your inner voice and ask: - Why do I feel the way I do? - Why does their perspective bother me so much? You will reach a whole new level where you can: - Accept the expressions of others without expectations - Express yourself genuinely, way without assuming acceptance #compasscommunications #pchatp #innerpeace #innerstrength #innerchildhealing #emotionalcompass

Let's have an awkward conversation about self-care versus self-sabotage. We have a weird habit of developing personalities that protect us from hearing things we don't want to hear. Our relationships directly reflect our personalities, or how we present ourselves. The problem is, that we need feedback, other perspectives, and dialogue to reveal and heal our blind spots. Part of self-care is removing negativity. The danger in this is perceiving danger (negativity) where there is none. What if you surround yourself with people who never challenge you, never offer a different perspective, or disagree? This is not self-care, this is self-sabotage. I recommend seeking courageous friends or encouraging friends to be real. Those who care about you will love you enough to say things you don't want to hear. Can we be honest about 2 things?: - Some people SUCK at feedback - it may be unactionable, ambiguous, or totally subjective - Some people SUCK at receiving feedback - overly sensitive, feeling attacked, or taking it way too personal It is on us to become better communicators. We can elevate how we send and receive feedback. It is for the sake of growing and helping others develop. Don't let silence be a comfort zone, rather learn to have a productive voice.  We can hold hands over our ears, or learn to filter the messages from people that are still growing, Nobody has time for fake harmony, sycophants, and false praise. Real talk - let's get better together! This was typed with love. This truth has no expiration date...so you can always keep it in mind. #compasscommunications #pchatp #innerpeace #innerstrength #innerchildhealing #emotionalcompass

If this video existed when I was 6 years old I would have used it to answer the question "What do you want to be when you grow up?" I would have said "this kind of leader" and shown or shared this clip. This is the kind of leader who effortlessly creates safety for those who want to join them to join them...in circumstances that are unique, challenging, and against social norms. This video says a lot, without any words. Surrounded by people who undoubtedly want to impress him and present their best selves...he casually wades into the pool, recklessly abandoning decorum.

What is more important: what others say to us, or what we say to ourselves?

🌟 As a fellow leader serving in multiple people-centric organizations, I know firsthand how challenging it can be to navigate the complexities of communication and leadership. Moving into positions of influence requires assessing what lessons we carry forward, and those to grow and throw away in the trash. 🗑 🙏 That's why I'm excited to share this informative and transparent video with you. We all have the power to transform how we approach our role of serving others. 💡 In this video, I discuss various types of trauma and how they can shape our lives and the lives of those we serve. 💪 It takes tough people to have tough conversations, especially when you are talking to yourself. Solving issues within ourselves always empowers us to help those following behind or beside us...or sometimes in front of us. 🌍 It takes courage to reflect on our own experiences and how trauma may have impacted us. Self-awareness is the key to unlocking our full potential as leaders. 🔑 Through exploring trauma, we can better understand our challenges and develop strategies for creating more supportive and compassionate environments. 🌈 It's not always easy to confront these issues, but I promise you, the rewards are well worth the effort. 💎 As you watch this video, I encourage you to keep an open mind and heart. 🧡 On a personal level, consider how you can apply these insights to your leadership journey. Whether you're a school administrator, teacher, or leader in another people-centric organization, you have the power to make a positive impact on those around you. 💪 Self-reflection can be uncomfortable, but your ability to grow and evolve as a leader depends on it. 🌱 By embracing self-awareness and committing to a trauma-informed approach, you'll be better equipped to support your team, family, students, and community. 🙌 🎥 So, take a deep breath, press play, and poke that beautiful bear called growth. I'm here to support you however I can. Your dedication to growing directly reflects your commitment to show up for others. I can't wait to see the incredible impact you'll make...can you? 🌟 Remember, you're not alone in this. 🤝 Share your thoughts, experiences, and revelations in the comments below, and let's create a community of compassionate, trauma-informed leaders together. #emotionalcompass #LeadershipJourney #SelfAwareness #TransformativeCommunication #EducationLeaders #communicationcompass

Every time I get ready to judge someone's ability or inability to communicate, I have to remind myself: if I had been through what they have lived through what they have, come from where they came from...I'd think, speak, and act the same way. 🌍🤝 Research shows that diverse teams are 87% better at making decisions (Forbes) and companies with inclusive cultures are 6 times more likely to be innovative (Deloitte). These stats remind us that understanding and compassion aren’t just noble goals—they're essential for business success. 📊💡 Even though we are all different, we can aspire to have the same level of compassion and understanding...diminishing barriers instead of each other's experiences. Let's create spaces where every voice is heard and valued. Together, we can turn our differences into strengths and build a brighter future for all. 🌟✨ #communicationmastery #communicationcompass #DiversityAndInclusion #EmpathyInAction #BusinessSuccess

👢 👡 👠 👟 👞 Every time I get ready to judge someone's ability (or inability) to communicate, I have to remind myself; if I had been through what they have, lived through what they have, come from where they came from...I'd think, speak and act the same. Even though we are all different, we can aspire to have the same level of compassion and understanding...diminishing barriers instead of each other's experiences. 👢 👡 👠 👟 👞 #communicationmastery #communicationcompass

🔥 Well Said!🔥