This has happened to me and my husband.
Unbelievable.
The past few months have seen the beginning of a new journey for María Lafuente Soria and me.
Which on a practical note also means a lot of doctor appointments.
A couple of weeks ago, we went to a control ECO,
And Maria, as a good first-time mum, is full of doubts, fears, and therefore questions.
One of them related to the predicted delivery date – which has been changing in the past few months.
So, she asked the doctor when it should be and why it was changing.
The straight response of the doctor was: ‘Why should you care? That’s not important at all!’
Then they carried on with the explanation that for the delivery we should consider a span of time of two weeks before and two after.
So that actually the date is just indicative, so not that important.
He was right in his explanation.
But was his wording right?
In some contexts, maybe.
However, in a context of doubts and fears, not right at all.
A similar wording, even if right in the insights, made her feel stupid.
That’s when ‘Why should you care? That’s not important at all!’
Became ‘You idiot, how can you ask such a silly question?’
What happened here?
The doctor did not understand their audience and let their biases take over.
They surely see many patients every day, and many of them come with things that for them are no-brainers.
But listen, that’s not an excuse!
When you deal with people, and they ask things politely, they always come first!
Side note - I say this after being for many years in the doctor shoes as I used to see +20 patients every day.
Anyway, the bottom line?
The doctor lost a patient.
How could the conversation have gone better?
The doctor could have simply asked why she wanted to know it, without adding his judgment.
Maria would have replied feeling safe and explained her worries, for them then to use her point of view to show how it actually works and that the predicted date is not that important.
What can advertisers and brands learn from this?
That words are just words.
But in different contexts they have a different impact as they get attributed different meanings.
The audience defines the meaning of campaigns based on their feelings and non-conscious motivators.
They are the key insight to create empathetic and resonant campaigns able to drive higher impact.
(Text from Stefano Fracchiolla)
What are your thoughts?