"Marry the right person" That is the financial advice that no one ever talks to you about, way in advance. Sometimes it appears a bit awkward when someone talks about who you marry as one of the factors to consider in your financial journey... Marriage is the most relational, consequential and financial decision we ever make. The partner you choose will determine where you live, what you spend on a daily basis, the vacations you take, the type of house you buy, the values you pass down to your children and many other financial elements that directly affect you as a family, including how you retire. Most couples only talk about money while fighting or during a crisis. Money talks for couples should actually be scheduled, and money should be talked about proactively and early enough. Ladies and gentlemen, step out for coffee dates with your loved ones and plan your financials. Ask questions. Many questions. Listen, and listen to understand not just to respond. This is deep, remember to remember. ✌️
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3moWow remember to remember! Great insight