About immigrants... When I was 14, my family immigrated to the US with $200 in cash and two suitcases with no valuables, so as not to arouse suspicion in Soviet authorities. My parents, both with PhD's, started a new life working near-minimum-wage jobs, relying on the kindness of new friends and the local Jewish community. I did my part by studying (which I found a lot easier than making friends), working part-time, and spending almost nothing. I got good grades and scholarships, a law degree from a top school, and followed a career in international law. My parents also had successful careers until they retired. In sum, we were the model "self-made" immigrants everyone on the right and left likes to praise. But what if we had not been white, educated, with excellent English, good health, and a number of well-off acquaintances? What if we had been displaced and traumatised by war, practised an unfamiliar religion, or triggered some unwelcome prejudice in others by virtue of our appearance or accent? To imagine that we would be where we are irrespective of our different starting points is just as wrong as to assume that everyone from the same starting point will end up in the same place. Every immigrant faces challenges that make us appreciative of some things a non-immigrant takes for granted. But my own experience does not make it possible to imagine a week in a refugee camp - or without food and shelter altogether, an existence without decent educational opportunities, or having to take care of small children or sick family members at the expense of my own career. Whether you are an immigrant or not, if you are reading this post, chances are you have had advantages in your life that 90% of the world's population will never have. But all immigrants, regardless of whether they look or act like us, travel with a dream and need a measure of help and luck to achieve it. Let's all remember that the next time we are in a position to lend a hand. --- Share your own story in the comments and feel free to repost to a wider audience!
Thank you for this wonderful post. Making an effort to help other immigrants is an unwritten rule of the immigrant's code. We never forget those who showed kindness to us and lent a helping hand.
I'm an immigrant. I left Ukraine with my son because of the war 2 years ago. Everything starts from 0.
3rd generation immigrant. Grandparents fled Bolchevik Russia. Grateful to France and Belgium for giving them a new country.
So important. I worked as a volunteer for refugees in Germany. An estimated 90% have been traumatized during their journey to Europe. And yet, I found them having a positive attitude, eager to learn the German language and very eager to work.
I immigrated alone. And made it all. Well said.
Dear Dimitri, I can totally relate. Very similar story here, only when I was 7, and my parents immigrated after the fall of the Soviet Union to Germany…
Thank you Dmitry. This is excellent perspective. We shouldn’t stereotype the immigrant experience, except to say we all need some luck in our careers and immigrants no doubt need more luck than anyone. And who is to say that even immigrants who are very successful, would not have been even more successful were it not for the challenges of being an immigrant.
Many thanks for sharing, Dmitri. This post made my day
An excellent and well needed reminder that behind the words 'immigrant' and 'immigration' lies a human story, thank you for sharing Dmitri!
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3moThank you, Dmitri, for this excellent perspective. I am a Russian-speaking lawyer. I hold a Bachelor’s Degree in Law with a concentration in Civil Law from a university in Moscow. Following my graduation in Russia in 2002, I dedicated over a decade to serving within the Russian national committee of the International Chamber of Commerce (ICC Russia). During this time, I collaborated with various law firms and diverse arbitration and legal institutions, focusing specifically on international law and dispute resolution. Since moving to the United States from Russia with my family in 2015, I have been a resident of Florida. Despite all the obstacles, I always know that I am so blessed to have support from my wife and our four children. Nowadays, I am a third-year law student in NSU College of Law in Floida. I am exploring various areas of law to determine my focus after anticipated graduation later this year. Neveretheless, I remain deeply interested in international law, and I feel a strong obligation to use my legal skills and experience to assist Ukraine during the Russian invasion now and in its post-war restoration.