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Most of us face the reality of a loved one dying. If we have the chance, how can we be fully present to them at that time and help them get their needs met? To do so, it a real gift not only to them but to yourself. The article offers ideas on this topic..

Explore meaningful ways to support a dying loved one with mindfulness and compassion in this insightful article from Psychology Today. Discover practical tips for being present and providing comfort during this challenging time. A must-read for anyone navigating the delicate balance of love and loss. #mindfulness #compassion #endoflife #support #PsychologyToday

This is a great start, and foundational. It is difficult to know, until you live it, and watch it, over time, and the rest comes to the surface. Allow opportunities to talk. To regale in old stories, the good and the bad. To celebrate themselves in different times in their lives. Select memorabilia can be helpful in conjuring memories that are empowering , and that remind your loved one that they have been part of something bigger than themselves. Allow time for humor, as much as possible, it is medicinal. Animals and children can be remarkable sources of wisdom and light, to the extent they are part of the natural environment - the generational ties in our home no doubt lengthened the span of my father’s life. Foster old connections, to the extent your loved one wants, without judgement or projection of your own feelings. Anticipating needs, as mentioned in the article, is so very impactful and important , for dignity, grace , and preservation of identity. Hold close the idea that although caregiving has its challenges, it is truly an existential privilege to care for a loved one at the end of their life. 💗

Embracing Life’s Full Circle: Death and the Role of a Death Doula Life and death are intimately connected, each defining and enriching the other. While death might seem like the opposite of life, it’s an essential part of our journey, offering its own form of closure and peace. A death doula plays a vital role in this profound transition, providing support and guidance when it’s needed most. Unlike traditional medical care, a death doula offers compassionate, non-medical support tailored to the unique needs and wishes of the individual and their loved ones. They help manage the emotional and practical aspects of dying, ensuring that the process is as peaceful and dignified as possible. By embracing the end of life with the assistance of a death doula, we can find harmony and understanding in the full spectrum of our existence. Death, like life, deserves care, respect, and compassion.  Seize the moment-start the conversation. Connect now.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.

Taking a practical approach to planning a loved one’s deathbed can help you do your best when the time comes.