I’m a villain in some of your stories…
The naked truth is that I may be seen as a villain in some people's narratives. While in others, I am viewed as the kindest and most generous person.
How can both of these perceptions be true?
This duality is a common reality for many individuals. Depending on the perspective of the observer, one may be cast as a villain in some stories and a compassionate hero in others.
Life is not a simple dichotomy of black and white; it is a myriad of shades of gray. When considering the choices we make and how we are judged, it is essential to recognize the subjective nature of perception.
Our views of others are often colored by our biases and upbringing, leading us to sometimes pass judgment rather than seeking understanding. In our judgments of others and ourselves, we often fail to consider the full complexity of an individual.
For example, did you know that 9 out of 10 people on death row were physically, sexually or mentally abused? Yet, we find it easy to cast them as a villain. Yet, in a different environment, they might have become a teacher, a nurse or a fireman.
Many times individuals may not always present the full picture of themselves, opting for a curated version that highlights their strengths while concealing vulnerabilities. Embracing one's flaws and failures requires a level of comfort with vulnerability and self-awareness.
In essence, people exist on a spectrum of behaviors and traits, capable of displaying both positive and negative aspects depending on the context. Navigating life's complexities involves acknowledging contradictions and embracing the inherent intricacies of human nature.
Ultimately, every person is a blend of light and shadow whether we admit it or not.
Come join Bring Out Your BadAss Self (#BOYBAS) on Friday, May 31st at 9:30am for our livestream. This week’s episode will include our unfiltered thoughts on various topics in an episode we call ‘Shooting the Sh*t’.
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