Many people think college is a place where students go to figure out career plans and life ambitions, where they form clear and confident goals for the future. But this, Arthur C. Brooks writes, is not true: “You should not have your future all figured out. Not now, and not later.” https://lnkd.in/eTmMvVh6 This lesson comes in part from the 13th-century Dominican mystic Meister Eckhart, who taught that we should “live without a why.” Eckhart did not mean that people should be directionless, or that life is meaningless. Rather, he believed in teaching the ultimate objective of life: “to act in a spirit of pure love before all else, and not to let worldly aims of money, power, and prestige distract us from this objective,” Brooks explains in a column adapted from a commencement speech he delivered at Providence College, a Catholic institution founded by Dominican friars. Goals such as getting a decent grade, graduating college, and finding a full-time job are all healthy, but “what is not healthy is to be attached to worldly goals in such a way that your happiness depends on them.” This, Brooks continues, is “a belief that almost invariably leads to frustration and disappointment.” Ultimately, setting goals should not distract you from love and service; that way, “you can also stay open to finding yourself on another, better path,” Brooks says. And for many, this path begins with unlearning a series of false lessons. “The first untruth is that you must know your destination,” Brooks writes. “The second is that a good life is one that minimizes suffering, and the third is that you must know and live your own truth.” In the place of these untruths, your new life path should begin with repeating three affirmations each morning, Brooks argues: “1) I do not know what this day will bring, but I will live it the best I can, with an attitude of love and generosity. 2) I am grateful for the good I experience today, but I do not fear the bad, which is part of being alive and an opportunity for learning and growth. 3) I do not possess the absolute truth, but today I will seek it with honesty, an open heart, and a spirit of adventure.” Read more: https://lnkd.in/eTmMvVh6
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