"I knew that wasn't going to work."
I've been thinking about this phrase a lot. It helps no one. Not the person saying it, not the person hearing it, and not anyone it affects.
I have made made this mistake more than once. I could see what needed to be done, but then for whatever reason, I did something else--usually because I didn't want to hurt someone's feelings, or because it would have been too hard, or because I would have drawn criticism. And yet the situation played out as I expected, and the only thing I could do was admit, "I knew that wasn't going to work." Tragic.
An example is InsideSales. We committed to go upmarket and sell to larger, enterprise customers. In the process, we told ourselves enterprise was "better" than SMB. Since deal sizes were larger and retention rates were higher, we told ourselves we were being "data driven."
If anyone knew better, it should have been me. I had read and studied all of Clay Christensen's materials on disruptive innovation. I had worked directly with Clay on a business and returned to HBS to study with him. I knew the whole theory and roadmap of how innovators take a market from the bottom up, and how "smart" managers at incumbent companies, making "data-driven" decisions cede lower market segments one tier at a time until there is no higher ground left and they get squeezed out.
I knew all this, and yet we made the first decision, and then the second, and then the third... and to no one's surprise, the theory played out just as it appears in textbooks.
"I knew that wasn't going to work."
So why didn't you say anything?
The truth is, I did. But after a few appeals and being summarily shut down, I relented and went "native." I became part of the problem. Why? Because I didn't fight hard or long enough. I didn't throw a fit. I didn't lay down on the tracks. I didn't boycott. I didn't get unreasonable. I said, "I don't agree, and here's why" to several decisions that started layering on, and eventually I kind of just started going along with it, and then I kind of "owned" the strategy, and then I defended it.... but "I knew that wasn't going to work."
Who did I help by being a "nice guy?" No one. I should have been unreasonable. I should have been unrelenting. I should have waged a campaign and not given up until everyone could see it. I should *not* have given up and gone native.
In the end, if you see something and don't do anything about it because you "don't want to make trouble," or it would be "too hard," or you're being "outvoted," you're doing no one any favors.
When you feel like you see something clearly, act. Be insistent. Be true to your intuition. The clearer it is to you, the more important it is that you be true. I wish I had only seen this play out once, but I've seen it multiple times, and I've been the weak link multiple times.
So be courageous. Don't let "I knew that wouldn't work" be your only consolation prize.
XOXO,
-db
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