Strictly's Zara McDermott was 'too scared to speak up' about her 'distressing' experience with Graziano Di Prima after reports he verbally and physically abused her
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Zara McDermott was reportedly 'too scared to speak up' after it was reported she was verbally and physically abused by her Strictly partner Graziano Di Prima during her time on the show last year.
The former Love Islander, 27, broke her silence on the allegations on Tuesday, as she took to Instagram to share that while much of her time on Strictly 'was everything I could have dreamt of' inside the training room with Graziano there were 'particular incidents which are incredibly distressing'.
The allegations came to light after members of production presented video of training room incidents to BBC HR executives investigating Graziano's co-star Giovanni Pernice amid bullying accusations from his partner Amanda Abbington.
And now an insider has told The Mirror that: 'In hindsight, Zara was clearly too scared to speak up and it's heartbreaking that the full extent of what was happening wasn't apparent.'
MailOnline revealed that Strictly production staff raised concerns about Graziano's conduct last year, but bosses only went as far as to issue quiet warnings to him.
![Strictly's Zara McDermott was ' reportedly too scared to speak up about her 'distressing' experience with Graziano Di Prima after reports he verbally and physically abused](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/17/16/87453781-13644109-image-a-117_1721230995549.jpg)
Strictly's Zara McDermott was ' reportedly too scared to speak up about her 'distressing' experience with Graziano Di Prima after reports he verbally and physically abused
![And now an insider has told The Mirror that: 'In hindsight, Zara was clearly too scared to speak up and it's heartbreaking that the full extent of what was happening wasn't apparent'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/17/16/87453783-13644109-image-m-118_1721231008905.jpg)
And now an insider has told The Mirror that: 'In hindsight, Zara was clearly too scared to speak up and it's heartbreaking that the full extent of what was happening wasn't apparent'
The group expected him to be sacked instantly. They are said to be furious that their complaints were ignored, meaning the abuse towards Zara was allowed to continue. Graziano was even signed on for the upcoming 2024 series of Strictly.
The insider told The Mirror that the matter was 'resolved at the time to everyone's satisfaction' and Zara was 'asked if she was OK by a senior producer at the time.'
The source added: 'He used some choice language - he was tough in training and producers spoke to him about the way he was speaking to people. He understood he was being given a warning, and that his conduct had to change.'
It was not until staff got hold of a video allegedly showing Graziano repeatedly hitting Zara– nine months after their initial complaint – that he was fired.
On Tuesday Zara broke her silence on the matter as she wrote: 'I felt it was right that I post something regarding the recent media reports,' Zara begain. 'Strictly is one of the most magical shows on TV and one that I dreamt of being on since I was a little girl.'
'When I was invited to be a contestant on the show it really was a childhood dream come true. I fully understood the level of commitment and hard work that Strictly was going to be and I dedicated everything to it.'
'I am a resilient person and I was fully prepared to put in whatever it took.'
'And so much of my Strictly experience was everything I could have dreamt of. The entire production team and everyone behind the scenes as well as my fellow contestants were so amazing to worth with.
![The source added: 'He used some choice language - he was tough in training and producers spoke to him about the way he was speaking to people. He understood he was being given a warning, and that his conduct had to change'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/07/87387443-13638405-image-a-2_1721113188376.jpg)
The source added: 'He used some choice language - he was tough in training and producers spoke to him about the way he was speaking to people. He understood he was being given a warning, and that his conduct had to change'
![The former Love Islander, 27, broke her silence on the allegations on Tuesday, as she took to Instagram to share that while much of her time on Strictly 'was everything I could have dreamt of' inside the training room with Graziano there were 'particular incidents which are incredibly distressing'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/08/87388195-13638573-Zara_McDermott_has_broken_her_silence_after_Graziano_di_Prima_wa-a-18_1721116327486.jpg)
The former Love Islander, 27, broke her silence on the allegations on Tuesday, as she took to Instagram to share that while much of her time on Strictly 'was everything I could have dreamt of' inside the training room with Graziano there were 'particular incidents which are incredibly distressing'
![Zara wrote that 'my experience inside the training room was very different. Reports have been made about my treatment on the show and there were witnesses to some events'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/09/87388493-13638573-Zara_wrote_that_my_experience_inside_the_training_room_was_very_-m-22_1721117335588.jpg)
Zara wrote that 'my experience inside the training room was very different. Reports have been made about my treatment on the show and there were witnesses to some events'
'However, my experience inside the training room was very different. Reports have been made about my treatment on the show and there were witnesses to some events, as well as videos of particular incidents which are incredible distressing to watch.
Zara explained that she didn't report the incidents at the time as she was 'scared' of backlash.
Instead it was junior production staff who came forward to share what they had witnessed as the investigation into pro dancer Giovanni Pernice was taking place.
A source from the show told MailOnline: 'There were multiple occasions where both physical and verbal attacks were made. It was more physical than verbal, but all of it was dreadful.'
Zara continued in her statement: 'I have wrested with the fear of opening up - I was scared about public backlash, I was scared about my future, I was scared of victim shaming,' Zara wrote on Instagram.
'But after a lot of conversations with those I love, I've gained the strength to face these fears, and when I was asked to speak to the BBC, I spoke candidly about my time on the show.
I have wrestled with the fear of opening up - I was scared about public backlash, I was scared about my future, I was scared of victim shaming. But after a lot of conversations with those I love, I've gained the strength to face these fears, and when I was asked to speak to the BBC, I spoke candidly about my time on the show.
'The culture within our society makes it difficult for people to speak up especially in a a world where social media opinions and voices are so loud. This is something I've seen through working with countless women on my documentaries.
![Graziano, who was due to compete in his seventh series of Strictly before his sacking, is taking legal action against the BBC , MailOnline revealed on Monday](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/08/87387731-13638405-Graziano_who_was_due_to_compete_in_his_seventh_series_of_Strictl-m-15_1721113837376.jpg)
Graziano, who was due to compete in his seventh series of Strictly before his sacking, is taking legal action against the BBC , MailOnline revealed on Monday
![Zara 'passed out' during rehearsal with Graziano in a 'resurfaced' video from last October after he was accused of 'hitting and kicking her' in rehearsals](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/17/16/87360089-13644109-Zara_McDermott_passed_out_during_rehearsal_with_Strictly_partner-a-119_1721231134353.jpg)
Zara 'passed out' during rehearsal with Graziano in a 'resurfaced' video from last October after he was accused of 'hitting and kicking her' in rehearsals
'I would like to thank the BBC and BBC Studios for their swift action and incredibly high level of support, as wel as everyone who has reached out to me - it really truly meas a lot. Love, always. Zara.'
Insiders have now revealed that Graziano is already packing up his life in the UK and plans to start again in Italy alongside his wife Giada, a fellow dancer who stars on the Italian version of Strictly.
A source explained how the dancer, who is planning to sue the BBC following his sacking, has gone into hiding, claiming: 'Graziano is petrified and in a bad place'.
'He is being supported by his wife Giada and they are planning to pack up and move back to Italy. This has killed his career dead and he knows it,' the insider told The Sun.
'Going back to Italy for a new beginning is what is best for him and Giada.'
Graziano, who was due to compete in his seventh series of Strictly before his sacking, is taking legal action against the BBC, MailOnline revealed on Monday.
The BBC has vowed to fight back after it was revealed that Strictly Come Dancing star Graziano Di Prima is taking legal action against the broadcaster.
The Sicilian dancer believes he should have been 'supported and helped' with his behaviour after bosses warned him about his treatment of former Love Island star Zara.
![Insiders have now revealed that Graziano is packing up his life and plans to start again in Italy alongside his wife Giada, a fellow dancer who stars on the Italian version of Strictly](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/08/87387445-13638405-Insiders_have_now_revealed_that_Graziano_is_packing_up_his_life_-a-5_1721113245621.jpg)
Insiders have now revealed that Graziano is packing up his life and plans to start again in Italy alongside his wife Giada, a fellow dancer who stars on the Italian version of Strictly
But a BBC insider told the Mail that the broadcaster will fight back, explaining: 'Why would any workplace, particularly one paid for by the public, offer support to someone who acted in an undoubtedly abhorrent manner?'
Graziano, who allegedly 'kicked and hit' Zara, argues that he was not given any advice on how to deal with the pressure of competing in the show.
A friend of the professional dancer said yesterday: 'There are questions over their [the BBC's] procedures, and how they operate behind the scenes.'
'He [Di Prima] believes that there is a lot of pressure on professionals to get nines or tens to entertain the audience.'
Addressing his exit from the show, a 'devastated' Graziano wrote on Instagram over the weekend: 'I deeply regret the events that led to my departure from Strictly. My intense passion and determination to win might have affected my training regime.
'While respecting the BBC HR process, I acknowledge it's only right for the sake of the show that I step away. I am saddened that I wasn't allowed to offer a quote to the online news stories, and I take on board the sensitivity of the situation.
'There's more to this story that I am unable to discuss at this time, but I am committed to being strong for my family and friends. I wish the Strictly family nothing but success in the future.'
Yesterday the Mail revealed he has hired a lawyer and publicist in a bid to come out of the scandal as unscathed as possible.
As more shocking allegations have come to light over Graziano's sacking, there has been a marked difference in public support for him.
![Graziano joined Strictly in 2018 and was last year partnered with Love Island star Zara but they were eliminated in week six](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/07/16/09/87345453-13638573-It_has_now_been_alleged_that_complaints_about_the_dancer_had_alr-a-19_1721116831209.jpg)
Graziano joined Strictly in 2018 and was last year partnered with Love Island star Zara but they were eliminated in week six
Previously, his fans and famous friends had rallied behind him, including fellow Strictly stars Katya Jones, Susannah Constantine and Catherine Tyldesley, who liked and commented on his Instagram post announcing his departure.
However, Catherine - who was partnered with Johannes Radebe in the show in 2019 - has now removed one of her more supportive comments.
It is the latest blow suffered by the BBC show, which is still watched by more than ten million people, as allegations against fellow Strictly star Giovanni Pernice are still being investigated.
Graziano joined Strictly in 2018 and was last year partnered with Love Island star Zara but they were eliminated in week six.
He was previously paired with presenter Vick Hope, Loose Women star Judi Love and in 2022 he reached the quarter-final with actor Kym Marsh.