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The 39 Best Anniversary Gifts for Your Wife, According to Brides Editors

Anniversary Gifts for your Wife

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If you’re stumped as to what to get your wife for your anniversary, consider the theme of the year; every wedding anniversary has both traditional and modern gift themes. The theme can be an excellent jumping-off point, but don’t feel locked into it. “Remember, gifts are a reflection of your relationship,” says etiquette expert Jodi RR Smith, adding that you shouldn’t feel obligated to adhere to the traditional or modern gift rules. “Your gift should revolve around your spouse, not ‘paper’ or ‘tin.’”

To that point, think about the types of things your wife loves and what she’s unlikely to purchase for herself. Yes, jewelry (hello, diamonds) is always a foolproof option. The same goes for everyday staples that she’ll get plenty of use out of—think a luxe pair of pajamas or a beautiful tote bag. And when in doubt, personalized anniversary presents such as a photo book or a piece of art depicting your wedding venue, are sure to pull at her heartstrings. We researched the best anniversary gifts for your wife, considering sentimental, thoughtful, and romantic gifts.

This stunning ring is worth the splurge for a major anniversary (think one, five, 10, or 20 years). You wouldn’t believe that the diamonds featured around this band are lab-grown; we were thoroughly impressed with how durable they were in our testing. The ring looks gorgeous worn on its own, though it is also thin enough to work into any bridal stack.

Buying perfume for your wife can be risky if you’re unsure of her scent preferences, but that’s not a concern with this unique fragrance. It has various notes and defies falling into any one olfactory category, a large reason for its universal appeal and cult-classic status.

Nice luggage hits that perfect gifting spot—it’s both practical and feels like a special splurge, particularly when it’s a high-end set like this pair. We love how sleek and functional the carry-on and checked bag pieces are and the fact that they can be personalized with her initials for an extra special touch.

Crafted with exquisite attention to detail, this little wallet offers ample card slots, a coin pocket, and a sleek envelope design, ensuring she stays organized while looking chic. The high-quality grain de poudre leather and iconic YSL logo make it a timeless accessory that she'll cherish for its functionality and style. Its elegance and practicality make it a thoughtful and long-lasting anniversary gift that symbolizes your commitment and refined taste.

Silk may be the 12-year anniversary gift, but it's welcome for any occasion. Slipping into this silk sleep set makes bedtime feel like a dream. The oversized top and side slit pants are comfortable yet sophisticated; the fabric is thermoregulating, buttery soft, and, best of all, machine washable.

Here’s a fun take on classic hoops. These chic huggies showcase a stunning rainbow moonstone in a recycled gold bezel setting—it's a look that works just as well for casual everyday wear as it does for special occasions

Whether she loves tea or coffee or prefers to mix it up, this is the perfect way to ensure her go-to beverage stays warm, regardless of how busy her day gets. The rechargeable coaster keeps the mug (and drink inside) toasty for 80 minutes up to a full day. We also like that it can be controlled with or without the accompanying app.

Signet rings are classic, but this one is made to feel all the more unique with the addition of 0.165 carats of ethically sourced round diamonds in the center. It’s the ideal piece for any woman who prefers understated sparkle.

Ideal for travel, this pebbled leather case will keep her skincare routine secure and organized. Still, it’s so pretty that it can also be used when she’s not on the go, a nice addition to any vanity. You can also add monogramming, which is always a nice idea for a gift.

If she’s all about a good blowout, she’ll go nuts over this hot tool—trust us. It’s pricey but worth every penny, with various attachments and high-tech designs that make it incredibly easy for anyone to create a multitude of different salon-inspired looks.

There’s no shortage of different ways to utilize this versatile tote. It’s the perfect size for quick weekend getaways, daily trips to the gym, an extra piece of carry-on luggage, commuting to work—you name it. Bonus points for the durable neoprene material and the six chic and neutral colorways.

“Toi et moi” translates to “you and me”—could that be more appropriate for an anniversary gift? In this case, the "you and me" are two semi-precious gemstones, one in an emerald cut and one in a pear cut, available in six different color combinations.

These earrings, handmade in Kenya, are sculptured and modern. They feature a stunning contrast of horn and brass and are available in black or tan finishes.

A weighted blanket makes the perfect addition to any lounging or relaxation routine. It offers the sensation of a big hug that’s calming and comforting. This particular one boasts an attractive knit design that looks great draped over any sofa or bed. It is made of organic cotton, so it never gets too hot.

While she’d love a DIY foot massage from you, this device will make both of your lives easier and more enjoyable. The deep kneading Shiatsu technique can be adjusted with five different massage modes and three intensity levels, giving her the exact foot (and calf) massage she wants at any time.

This is the way to go if she’s a gadgets and gizmos girl. The techy tool delivers (very relaxing, very enjoyable) percussive facial massage and can also be used as a microcurrent device, delivers rejuvenating light therapy, and even works as a face cleansing brush.

Celebrities including Meghan Markle and Mila Kunis are fans of this necklace, so your wife will be in good company. The three-part design can be customized with any letters and charms you choose, a nice way to represent you, your kids, your pets, and more.

The perfect everyday staple, customize this with your wife’s (or your) name in cursive or block font. The pavé cubic zirconia stones add the ideal sparkle without feeling so delicate or expensive that she’ll be afraid to wear this necklace daily.

Whipping up a delicious, homemade matcha has always been challenging. This machine does everything from store to grind to whisk your tea leaves for a delectable cup of matcha in minutes. Fun fact: Celebs Cindy Crawford and Carey Mulligan also love it.

A Tiffany bracelet like this one always makes for a timeless gift. The key ring style adds a fun touch to a classic sterling silver bracelet, complete with a heart to symbolize your love.

This gift turns your wedding venue into a beautiful work of art, something your wife (and you) can cherish for years. Add the venue's location or any other personal text to make it extra special. It’s heartfelt, meaningful, and a present that can work for any anniversary.

These earrings look like real diamond studs, but, spoiler alert, they’re not. Rather, they’re made from the brand’s patented diamond simulant that looks exactly like a flawless diamond. The upshot? You can score a larger carat weight without breaking the bank. 

This classic yet stylish set is made from an ultrasoft, ribbed modal fabric ideal for sleeping and lounging. With over 14 different colors and inclusive sizes ranging from XXS to 4X, there’s an option for everyone.

Make no mistake; this is nothing like the face masks she may already have. It’s powered by the brand’s proprietary TFC8 technology, which helps your skin renew itself. Long story short, this fancy-pants mask hydrates, boosts radiance, improves texture and tone, and can be used for just a few minutes or instead of an overnight cream.

You don’t necessarily have to spend tons of money on a meaningful and sentimental piece of jewelry. These adjustable cuffs (which come in various finishes) can be stamped with any date, phrase, or letter. And at this price point, you can easily afford to pick up a few to create a beautiful stack.

Diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but pearls are close behind. This necklace is made of 18k yellow gold and features 62 cultured freshwater pearls in a classic round shape. It’s timeless, traditional, and perfect.

Yes, candles always make a great gift (we will die on that hill), but a standard, run-of-the-mill candle doesn’t quite cut it when it comes to feeling unique enough to be an anniversary gift. But this isn’t a run-of-the-mill candle. Not only is the rose and blackcurrant scent exquisite, but the oversized format boasts a 90-hour burn time and a stunning black porcelain vessel that doubles as a piece of décor.

Here’s an affordable option that’s perfect for a first anniversary. Compile all your favorite wedding photos and have them printed in this pretty hardcover book; each page can be customized with layouts and text. Plus, it’s all printed on 100 percent post-consumer recycled paper, and the brand plants a tree for each purchase.

If she’s an avid worker-outer, she’ll love that this system makes it easy to do any number of at-home routines, even if she’s short on time (or space). It has everything you need—anchors and straps—to set up the streamlined, multitasking exercise equipment anywhere.

This at-home sauna blanket makes it easy for her to tap into the infrared sauna wellness trend—in the comfort of your home. Think of it as a souped-up sleeping bag that delivers infrared heat to help calm the mind, promote muscle recovery, sweat out toxins, and more.

Make no mistake about it—this is a far cry from any generic box of chocolates. The handcrafted truffles come in a variety of special flavors, like mango lemongrass and macadamia praline, and they are all decorated with unexpected, whimsical designs.

There’s certainly nothing wrong with buying your wife lingerie as an anniversary gift, but giving her a subscription to this site is, shall we say, a little safer. Choose from a three-, six-, or 12-month option; each month, she’ll get to choose the bralette and panty set that she wants to receive.

For the boss lady in your life, this ToteSavvy Deluxe Bag Organizer offers organization and versatility, allowing her to transition seamlessly from work to personal outings. Its chic design and durable construction make it a stylish and practical accessory that complements her busy lifestyle, so it's an anniversary gift that combines fashion and functionality. This versatile nylon accessory is available in red, beige, and the ever-popular black. 

Comfy and cozy, this cardigan is the perfect topper for any time of year. Also nice: It’s a sustainable option made entirely of recycled fibers.

The best candles come in beautiful packages, and this one will make a stunning conversation piece. The candle's citrus-floral blend in its porcelain pot is complete with shiny gold detailing. Even the outer box mimics the candle's design—you won't even need to wrap it.

A quality gold watch is such a timeless piece in any woman's jewelry box. The heirloom-quality, art deco-inspired Bianca watch by Citizen has clean lines, a mother-of-pearl dial, and blue hands, giving it a sophisticated look. One of our favorite features of this beautiful watch is that it's powered by light and not batteries.

If diamonds are her love language, she'll go gaga for this sparkler of a ring. Featuring baguette and round diamonds set in 18k yellow gold, this ring has a versatile look that will complement her engagement ring and wedding band. As with many Brilliant Earth jewelry pieces, the ring is sustainably packaged and made using recycled materials.

Part of the fun of gifting is finding unique items your recipient likely wouldn't think to look for, like this whimsical jewelry box. The brass-plated keyplate keeps her jewelry safe, and the plush lavender interior is just as pretty as the outside of the box.

You really can't go wrong with pearl earrings. These beauties feature cultured pearls in an 18k white gold setting. They're understated and elegant and will complement any style.

What to Look for When Buying an Anniversary Gift for Your Wife

  • Sentimentality: When choosing an anniversary gift for your wife, it's usually a good idea to honor the occasion with something sentimental. Something personal, like a customized portrait of your wedding venue or a necklace with her name, will become a meaningful keepsake. 
  • Thoughtfulness: As the adage goes, it’s the thought that counts. You’ll want to give your wife something that lets her know how special she is to you and that you’ve been paying attention to her interests and wishes. Taking the time to get something you know she’ll enjoy, like a gift card for an at-home massage or a cozy weighted blanket, is a great way to show how much you care.
  • Romance: Let those loving feelings come through in your anniversary gift for your wife. For instance, customize your gift with a personal message. Whatever gift you choose, add a handwritten note to let her know how much you love and appreciate her.
FAQ
  • What can I buy my wife for our anniversary?

    Choose an anniversary gift for your wife that is personal to her or you as a couple. Consider her interests and how she likes to spend her free time. Use the anniversary gifts by year themes if you're looking for ideas. For example, if she loves relaxing with tea, a classic iron teapot could be a lovely gift to mark your sixth anniversary. Some people love to receive jewelry and flowers, while others prefer a more practical gift like luggage. Your anniversary is also a great time to connect with an experience you can do together, like going for a couples massage or enjoying a candlelit dinner for two.

  • How can I surprise my wife on our anniversary?

    The best way to create an anniversary surprise is to plan something unexpected or an activity you haven’t done in a long time. If you always went for a walk at a particular park or saw a movie every weekend when you first started dating, plan a visit to where it all began. If you’re looking for something more extensive, you can also surprise your wife with a weekend for two, all planned by you. 

  • Should I get my wife flowers for our anniversary?

    Flowers are a popular and romantic gift. If your wife enjoys receiving flowers, they are a great choice for an anniversary gift. You can personalize your floral arrangement by including flowers that your wife had in her wedding bouquet or by choosing flowers that are significant for your anniversary year. 

Why Trust Brides

Brides contributor Melanie Rud has nearly 15 years of journalism experience covering the beauty and lifestyle space for some of the biggest magazines and websites. She’s written countless gift guides across various topics and categories. (She also prides herself on being an excellent gift-giver.)

  • Jodi RR Smith is the president and owner of Mannersmith and a consultant who specializes in social and professional etiquette.

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