Audiovisual Reviews
Robert E. Yahnke, PhD, Audiovisual Editor
OLD AGE IN FEATURE-LENGTH FILMS
This film is a delight for the eyes and the ears with
beautiful seascapes, rolling hills, and a soundtrack that
varies from piano to the haunting and plaintive notes of
the violin. Viewers are also given a glimpse of life in
a small Cornish village in the mid 1930s where social
gatherings often revolved around the local pub.
The film opens with a scene of two older sisters,
Ursula (Judi Dench) and Janet (Maggie Smith),
walking away from the camera on a rocky beach
with the sounds of gently lapping waves and light piano
music in the background. The impression is one of
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Ladies in Lavender, 2004, 103 min. Dir. Charles Dance.
Available on DVD from Sony Pictures.
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in the film. A folly is a decorative structure, popular in the
18th century, built to look like a ruin. It appears to be
something other than what it is and is called a folly
because it represents the foolishness of the builder.
The doctor’s romantic interest in Olga—and, to
some extent, Ursula’s for Andrea—are portrayed as the
folly of those of advanced years. Indeed, the doctor is
shown in his folly when, even in the face of Olga’s
disinterest, he tries to impress her by claiming he has
the energy of a man 10 years his junior. In another
scene he drives to her house with flowers that go
undelivered because he sees Andrea leaving her cottage.
In yet another scene, he is spying on Olga like a lovestruck youth. The cumulative effect is the portrayal of
a man who is denying the obvious (she has no interest)
and is jealous and bitter about the unrequited
attraction. Through both characters, the film communicates that it is a folly for the old to long for the
romantic attentions of the young.
Just as the doctor perceives the young Andrea to be
a threat, so does Ursula perceive Olga to be a threat to
her affections for Andrea. The young artist intrudes into
the sister’s household in many ways. First, she was the
stranger who commented favorably on Andrea’s playing (noted above) and then was rebuffed by Ursula.
Another intrusion takes place when Olga walks into the
private garden where Andrea is giving a violin concert
for the two sisters. This unexpected visit is greeted by
the sisters with minimal civility as Olga explains that
she was drawn to the music and had heard Andrea play
at the Harvest Festival celebration at the pub.
While the sisters are discussing these intrusions,
Ursula comments that Olga frightens her and reminds
her of the wicked witch in a fairy tale. In one sense, this
reveals Ursula’s recognition that she is living in
a ‘‘fantasy’’ and is frightened by the reality (competition) of the younger woman. Ursula escapes reality in
a dream sequence where the viewers observe Andrea
and her embracing as they tumble affectionately in
a field. But in that dream the woman in Andrea’s arms
is a younger version of Ursula. As Ursula emerges from
the dream, her dream face next to Andrea’s transforms
into her rival Olga’s face. The camera offers a close-up
of Ursula’s face as her eyes slowly open—and her
expression is marked by sadness and concern. The fairy
tale dream has become a nightmare.
But that dream sequence ends with a curious cut to
a photograph of Janet’s fiancé, Peter, killed in WWI.
That photograph of her fiancé has an iconic value—
signifying, we suspect, her one great love (and loss). In
one respect, Ursula’s fixation on Andrea is her attempt
to gain—for herself—a similar triumph of the heart.
Janet has already had her great love; now it is Ursula’s
turn. Thus, in the next scene, Janet brings up the
subject of Peter. She wants to know, ‘‘Were you very
much in love with Peter?’’ But Janet does not answer
this question directly, and the scene ends with another
shot of the photograph on the bedside stand.
The introduction of Janet’s lost love is consistent
with an important, underlying theme: the friendship
between the two sisters. Both women share a deep
sibling bond; Janet’s role is to protect her sister from the
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comfortable companions who have forged satisfying
lives in their later years. This lighter mood contrasts
with the following scene of an evening storm with large
waves crashing violently against the rocks and sets the
stage for the emotional roller coaster waiting for the
sisters when they find an unexpected guest washed up
on the shoreline near their house.
The sisters find a young man lying lifeless on the
beach and take him in and nurse him back to health
over a period of several weeks. Because he speaks no
English, communication is a challenge, but Janet
discovers that he speaks German and learns that his
name is Andrea and that he is Polish. While Janet
introduces herself as Miss Widdington, Ursula is quick
to introduce herself by her first name. Her response is
a hint that Ursula might become smitten with this
attractive, young man. But even earlier, when the
sisters found him washed up on the beach, the camera
focused on Ursula’s lingering response. Something of
significance has happened to Ursula. In later scenes,
Ursula sits by his bedside while he sleeps; she turns the
radio low to avoid disturbing him; she places a flower
on his breakfast tray; and she works hard to teach him
English. She finds ways to express her interest and to
spend more time with him. In a key scene, when the
sisters learn he loves the violin, they ask an old friend
from town to bring his violin and play it for him. What
they did not know is that Andrea is an accomplished
violinist. When he plays the man’s violin, and makes
the instrument sing with passion, the reaction shot of
Ursula is shown in slow motion—as if to signify that
time has stopped for her in this moment of bliss. Is
Ursula in love? After he plays, a young woman, an
artist, calls out from the yard to acknowledge her
gratitude at hearing such beautiful music. Ursula turns
her away abruptly and shuts the window. Is Ursula
jealous of a younger rival?
One obvious theme running throughout the movie is
that romantic emotions do not have an expiration date.
Ursula embraces the feeling of love that she develops
for Andrea—something denied her as a younger
woman. For Ursula, this is the first great love of her
life. Andrea responds to her attention with genuine
affection (but no romance). In one scene, while walking
on the beach, Andrea stoops and picks up a shell and
gives it to Ursula. Sitting on a nearby rock formation,
Andrea leans his head on her lap. Ursula hesitantly
reaches down and strokes his head and then puts her
hand to her breast as if awash with emotion. Her look
is one of fear and excitement. She can barely believe the
bliss of this moment.
This theme of romantic interest in older adults is also
represented by the aged doctor who is enamored of
a visiting young painter named Olga. He stops to talk
with her while she paints a landscape. Olga barely
tolerates his visit. She prefers not to have an audience,
but the doctor persists in his futile courtship. He points
to a distant stone structure and refers to it as a folly,
explaining that it was built by the landowner to escape
his wife. Unfortunately, the viewer is never given
a definition of this term, which is the filmmaker’s only
‘‘folly’’ because it is a significant and understated symbol
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in love with him. In the next scene Andrea does seek
out Ursula and apologizes to her for not being more
sensitive to her feelings.
Andrea eventually leaves unannounced to accompany
Olga to London where she promises him a career as
a violinist (not as her lover). Ursula is crushed and falls
into her sister’s arms sobbing. She seems listless in
following scenes, keeping to herself and not eating. Her
sorrow is conveyed as she sits in Andrea’s bedroom, lit
by cold blue moonlight, and then crawls up on the bed
curling into a fetal ball. It is the deep chill of a soul that
has lost a dream, where hope and happiness have
vanished. We are watching a woman who has lost her
first great love.
But a turning point occurs with the arrival of a letter
from Andrea; he apologizes to the sisters for his hasty
departure and reassures them that they are always in
his thoughts. He also sends a painting of him done by
Olga, and Ursula places it in a prominent place on the
wall. Now she has an image of her first great love, akin
to the photograph of Janet’s great love. In the letter
Andrea invites them to listen to him on a radio
broadcast where he will be the featured violinist. On
the evening of the concert, the villagers are shown
gathering at the sisters’ house to listen to the
performance, but the sisters are nowhere to be seen.
Then the scene changes to show the audience at the
concert hall; there in the audience are the two sisters.
They watch the performance with rapt attention.
During his piercing and passionate violin solo, Ursula
flashes back on memories of Andrea as if she is filing
them away and letting go of her romantic attachment.
The facial expressions of Janet and Ursula now convey
a look of pride in having saved Andrea’s life and
provided a foundation for his current success.
At the end of the film a third and very subtle theme
emerges, that of reaching elderhood, a state of
acceptance of oneself in old age. As we witness Ursula
at the violin concert, and the vibrancy of the music and
colorful clothes worn by the audience, there is a sense of
a liveliness returned to her life. The flashbacks of her
time with Andrea suggest that she has achieved a new
level of self-understanding or integrity from embracing
her experience as one of learning rather than foolishness.
But she could not have attained this self-knowledge if she
had not loved Andrea deeply and thus experienced her
first great love in her life—even in old age. This identify
transformation is further reinforced at the reception
when Andrea is surprised to see them in attendance. He
kisses them both affectionately on the cheek, but Ursula
responds now as a mentor or a loving parent. Andrea
even seeks their reassurance (as an adult child might of
parents) as he reveals his concern that his nervousness
showed in his performance. When he is pulled away to
meet other guests, he resists, but Ursula urges him to
‘‘just go.’’ Rather than cling to him as she had in prior
days, this moment symbolizes her willingness and her
understanding of the necessity and the rightness of
letting him go. She seems to accept that her active
participation in his life is over. Her realization is also
reflected when Ursula turns to Janet and simply says,
‘‘Let’s go.’’ Now Ursula, rather than Janet, is in charge.
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folly and pain of a romantic love that will never be
consummated. The sisters are very open with one another but also careful to avoid stepping too harshly on
each other’s feelings. Many scenes in the film capture the
deep and caring relationship between these two women.
One scene involves the decision to buy new clothes for
Andrea to replace those he had worn when first washed
ashore. In this scene Janet grasps the extent to which
Ursula is taken with Andrea. When deciding how to pay
for the clothes, Janet offers to use her personal funds,
but Ursula insists they use mutual funds and finally
claims the right to decide by saying, ‘‘I was the one who
saw him first.’’ Replying sharply to this childish claim of
possession, Janet says, ‘‘Don’t be ridiculous.’’ Realizing
Ursula’s infatuation, she adds, ‘‘Don’t you think you’re
being rather silly?’’ This is the only scene in which Janet
seems scornful of Ursula’s emotions. Later, Ursula
demands an apology and criticizes Janet by saying,
‘‘You can be so insensitive.’’ Janet’s quiet and heartfelt
reply, ‘‘On the contrary,’’ indicates that she is very
sensitive to her sister’s attraction to Andrea, and it is
evident that she responds with compassion and regret
for the pain that is sure to follow.
Janet grows increasingly concerned about Ursula
and what she views as the latter’s untenable romantic
interest. Her love for her sister is revealed in a poignant
scene when the sisters are talking upstairs in their
shared bedroom. The night before Janet found Ursula
alone in Andrea’s bedroom touching his hair with her
hand. Now she is concerned that Janet’s interest in
Andrea is out of control, and she advises caution and
remarks, ‘‘Andrea’s a boy.’’ Ursula snaps back, ‘‘Yes,
and I’m an old woman—silly and ridiculous and
foolish.’’ Janet sensitively modifies her sister’s selfcondemnation by simply saying, ‘‘Naive.’’ Here we see
the caring sister who wants to protect Ursula from pain
by helping her rid herself of a romantic fantasy. But
earlier in the scene, Janet asked, ‘‘You were happy with
Peter, weren’t you? It wasn’t all pain.’’ For the second
time in the film Janet does not respond to her inquiry.
What secret is Janet keeping from Ursula about her
own relationship with the man she once loved? Does
Janet empathize with Ursula’s desire to have a great
romantic love just as she had experienced with a man
she had loved and lost? Or is Janet responding to
Ursula’s genuine devotion to Andrea as an example of
a heartfelt commitment she herself did not feel for her
own fiancé?
Olga once again intrudes into their lives by sending
the sisters a letter clarifying that her interest in Andrea
is related to his musical talent and her desire to
introduce him to her brother, who is a violin maestro.
The sisters are suspicious of Olga’s intent and conceal
the letter from Andrea. When Olga arranges to paint
Andrea in the privacy of her cottage and informs him
of the letter, he is furious about the deception. That
evening he angrily confronts the sisters. Again, Janet
attempts to shield her sister by accepting all blame and
claiming that Ursula did not know. Ursula, upset by the
confrontation, rushes from the room, and Janet turns
on Andrea and shouts, ‘‘Now do you understand?’’ as
if he will realize with those simple words that Ursula is
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Now Ursula and Janet are at least equals because of
their shared life experiences.
The sisters depart, walking side by side down a long
stone archway and fade at the end of the hallway to
reappear on the shore of the rocky beach where the
story first unfolds. Identical to the beginning, the sisters
walk away from the camera. There is a liveliness and
playfulness to Ursula’s steps. She bends, picks up
a stone, tosses it in the air, and scampers around
a rock formation to the water beyond. We know these
two old women now in ways we did not know them
when we first saw them on the shore. The final scene,
accompanied by gentle piano music, suggests a sense of
returning, of life renewal, and an inner peace restored.