Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani

Wow!!! What an incredible eye opener episode from an attorney’s perspective. I unfortunately was not lucky enough to have an attorney who was more focused on the bait from the opposing counsel than be conscientious of her actions that costed me thousands of dollars for a non divorce case and it was truly a nightmare for me to have to deal with not only deal with my ex narcissist but to deal with my own attorney’s issues of being able to provide me the adequate representation that I needed and instead she was more concerned about the other attorneys narcissistic behavior to be the focal point that she was having a very difficult time to handle and it not only costed me money but it also made me feel very distrustful of the legal system anymore! And that’s the worst part of it that as a lawyer she would literally bill me to talk about the opposing counsel and there was no strategy no counsel given to me just a complain fest for her to talk about the other side opposing counsel! I have thought that I was crazy and that maybe I’m wrong but after this helpful podcast I truly believe that I was right and wasn’t being crazy! Thank you so much Demetria Graves for the valuable information insight and advice

Dr Ramani Thank you personally for this knowledge that you’ve shared here. For Validating So many Survivors Like myself and for helping me heal the deep scars. Thursdays were a really amazing anticipated day for me . I’m looking forward to next season keep sharing your gift . And giving so many women and men around the world hope like myself.

this podcast is saving me in the aftermath of ending my relationship with my abuser, i can’t thank you and your guests enough.

Dr Ramini, let me start by saying I love your content and I watch so much of what you put out there. But this episode (especially your take always at the end of the episode had me screaming at my phone). What a disappointment. I’m actually shocked by your analysis of this story. This episode was not about a unsuspecting women getting involved with a dangerous narcissist. This episode was about two narcissists (one more malignant than the other getting together and it not working out). The whole episode Kiersten was using blameshifting to explain how she ended up in this situation. It was her childhood sexual abuse. She was in a fog. She was overwhelmed by his charm. She was in a bad place economically. Etc. Classic blameshifting. She got into that relationship because she chose to get into that relationship. Period. And then at the end you try to make a distinction between narcissistic infidelity and “drift away” infidelity. There is no distinction. Healthy adults don’t betray their spouses and put their sexual health at risk. If they want out of a marriage to start a new relationship, then they end the marriage and move on. Kiersten clearly felt entitled to this new shiny relationship giving no thought on how it would hurt her spouse. For you to call it “non-toxic” cheating and that not all cheating is bad cheating is just abhorrent. Ask someone who got HPV from their cheating spouse if she/he thought their partner’s cheating was non toxic. I think you were trying to make Kiersten’s story make sense for your platform, but it just doesn’t. You way missed the mark on this one. Terrible.