But Are You Happy?

But Are You Happy?

Join Clare Stephens as she asks the questions you’ve always wanted to ask the people who appear to have it all. 

  1. Extra: How To Protect Yourself Against A Narcissist

    19/12/2024 · BONUS

    Extra: How To Protect Yourself Against A Narcissist

    Have you ever been love-bombed by a romantic partner only to have them go cold as soon as they’ve snagged you? Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who made you feel crazy because of their ability to seem SO great in front of the neighbours but be SO different behind closed doors? What about a boss who steals your ideas, your thunder and your inspiration…Or a parent who always made your life about them? According to our guest today, chances are you’ve been tussling with a Narcissist. Narcissism is a word that has well and truly entered the zeitgeist but how well do we really understand it? What are the red flags? What do we DO if we realise we’re in a relationship with one? Margi Bowden is a counsellor and coach and, importantly, a Narcissism expert and she has ALL the answers for you. You can learn more about Margi’s work by following her on Instagram Listen to our episode with Patric Gagne about life as a sociopath here Listen to our episode with David Gillespie about psychopaths here THE END BITS: Listen to more No Filter interviews here and follow us on Instagram here. Discover more Mamamia podcasts here. Feedback: [email protected] Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will get back to you ASAP. Rate or review us on Apple by clicking on the three dots in the top right-hand corner, click Go To Show then scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on the stars at the bottom and write a review.   CREDITS: Host: Holly Wainwright Executive Producer: Naima Brown Producer: Tahli Blackman Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    48 min
  2. Bonus: The Bromance The World Needs - Jimmy & Nath

    11/12/2024 · BONUS

    Bonus: The Bromance The World Needs - Jimmy & Nath

    The Jimmy & Nath show is the biggest weeknight radio programs in Australia. Hosted by best mates, Jimmy Smith and Nathan Roye. Jimmy and Nath joined Mia Freedman in the Mamamia studios for a candid conversation about their careers, their successes, their friendship, as well as the ways that they're using their platform and their audience to discuss some really important things - from mental health to domestic violence. We also hear about what it’s like when your best mate gets married, how to fight back against the influence of Andrew Tate, and why Jimmy didn’t like Nath when they first met. This is a must-listen episode of No Filter with Mia Freedman. If you or anyone you know needs to speak with an expert, please contact your GP or in Australia, contact Lifeline (13 11 14), Kids Helpline (1800 55 1800) or Beyond Blue (1300 22 4636), all of which provide trained counsellors you can talk with 24/7. THE END BITS: Subscribe to Mamamia Listen to more No Filter interviews here and follow us on Instagram here.Discover more Mamamia podcasts here.Feedback: [email protected] your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will come back to you ASAP.Rate or review us on Apple by clicking on the three dots in the top right-hand corner, click Go To Show then scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on the stars at the bottom and write a review.  CREDITS:Host: Mia FreedmanYou can find Mia on Instagram here and get her newsletter here. Follow Jimmy & Nath on Instagram here Producers: Kimberley Braddish & Naima BrownAudio Producers: Leah Porges & Thom LionMamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 hr
  3. Clare Stephens: When The 'Red Flag' Isn't About Them, It's About You

    04/12/2024 · BONUS

    Clare Stephens: When The 'Red Flag' Isn't About Them, It's About You

    There’s a reason why behavioural scientist Dr Ali Fenwick is one of the most followed relationship & psychology accounts on social media (and it’s not just his fantastic dancing). In this special episode of No Filter, Clare Stephens explores the real meaning behind the red flags and the green flags we encounter in our relationships with others - from romantic partners to family, the workplace and friendships - Dr Ali Fenwick provides a clear framework for better communication, healthier boundaries, and happier relationships. Do you think you know what to do when you encounter a red flag? Think again: because it turns out, running away isn’t always the best idea. You can follow Dr Ali Fenwick on Instagram here. And you can find his book, Red Flags, Green Flags; Modern Psychology for Everyday Drama, here. THE END BITS: Join the Month of MOVEGet $30 off a Mamamia subscription and get unlimited access to our feel-good exercise app. Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39. Listen to more No Filter interviews here and follow us on Instagram here. Discover more Mamamia podcasts here. Feedback: [email protected] Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will get back to you ASAP. Rate or review us on Apple by clicking on the three dots in the top right-hand corner, click Go To Show then scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on the stars at the bottom and write a review.   CREDITS: Host: Clare Stephens Executive Producer: Naima Brown Producer: Tahli Blackman Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 hr
  4. Exclusive: Deepak Chopra Thinks AI Can Make Us Better Human Beings

    27/11/2024

    Exclusive: Deepak Chopra Thinks AI Can Make Us Better Human Beings

    In this Australian exclusive with New York Times bestselling author and internationally acclaimed guru Deepak Chopra - Clare Stephens puts her signature “But Are You Happy” questions to the pioneer of new age spirituality himself. We know Deepak Chopra is peaceful…but is he happy? Did he grow up in a happy family? Clare and Deepak Chopra also dive deep into his most recent book - Digital Dharma: How AI Can Elevate Spiritual Intelligence and Personal Well-Being - where Chopra takes a much more optimistic view of the greatest technological advancement of our lifetime. Not only does he not believe we should be afraid of Artificial Intelligence, he believes it can assist us to be more spiritual, more connected and more attuned to our life’s purpose. You can follow Deepak Chopra and learn more about his “Digital Deepak” avatar here. You can find his book, Digital Dharma, here. THE END BITS Subscribe to Mamamia GET IN TOUCH: We're taking suggestions for the next season of But Are You Happy. Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected] and let us know who you want to hear on the podcast.  CREDITS: Host: Clare Stephens Guest: Deepak Chopra Executive Producer: Naima Brown Producer: Tahli Blackman Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    46 min
  5. Introducing: CANCELLED, From Clare Stephens

    09/11/2024 · BONUS

    Introducing: CANCELLED, From Clare Stephens

    Welcome to the Cancelled courtroom!The O.C was an iconic TV show with three wealthy main characters: Marissa, Summer, Seth and troubled youth Ryan. Seth/Adam Brody was apparently just as focused on set as a sloth in a hammock (sorry if we've offended any sloths).  The show ran from 2003-2007 but creators probably should've given up after season three when, SPOILER ALERT: Marissa died in a very dramatic scene that probably still makes you cry. Did they kill her off because she was the worst? Should they instead have taken out her mum Julie Cooper-Nichol-Bullet-Roberts-Atwood-Cooper? She was a legitimate predator. Normally we look into silly celebrity crimes but some of these scenes felt a little illegal.We're investigating all the weird storylines: constant near-death experiences, a gay dad and a bisexual bartender. Gasp!  Plus, the real life drama was just as wild.And of course we have more of your lazy gewl stories.  If you enjoyed this episode, you can follow CANCELLED here.Listen to A Brutally Honest Review Of Nobody Wants This on Mamamia podcast: The Spill here. A LIST OF EVERYONE WE'VE CANCELLED ALONG THE WAY: 7th “Stop Trying To Be The Bible” Heaven Timothée ChalametThe “Ryan Gosling’s Face Is Too Hot” NotebookThe OlympicsDrew BarrymoreIt Ends With Us DramaBenniferLady Gaga SEND US YOUR LAZY GEWL STORIES: [email protected] END BITS:If you’re looking for something else to listen to why not check out our hilarious and seriously unhelpful podcast The Baby Bubble hosted by Clare and Jessie Stephens.Or click here to listen to the hosts of Mamamia Out Loud open up about creativity and how they stay inspired.  CREDITS:Hosts: Clare and Jessie Stephens Executive Producer: Kimberley Braddish  Audio Producer: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    54 min
  6. What Tammin Sursok Knows About Taking Up Space

    30/10/2024

    What Tammin Sursok Knows About Taking Up Space

    What are the pivotal experiences in your life that have shaped who you are today? Australian actress Tammin Sursok has plenty of experiences to share, and she’s grateful for each one, no matter how challenging. In this season finale of But Are You Happy?, Clare invites Tammin to share her story candidly. At first glance, you might not see the struggles she’s faced, but beneath the surface, she has battled feelings of shame and moments that shattered her self-esteem. She’s lived through serious health challenges, and now she’s navigating who she is today, with her family at the forefront. So, is Tammin Sursok happy? You guessed it—you’ll have to listen to find out. THE END BITS Subscribe to Mamamia The Butterfly Foundation is a great support service for anyone who struggles with disordered eating or body image issues. You can find more information here. GET IN TOUCH: We're taking suggestions for the next season of But Are You Happy. Send us a voice message or email us at [email protected] and let us know who you want to hear on the podcast.  CREDITS: Host: Clare Stephens Guest: Tammin Sursok  Executive Producer: Naima Brown Producer: Tahli Blackman Audio Producer: Thom Lion Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    45 min

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