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=== Quran interpretations that do not support domestic violence ===
Indicating the subjective nature of the translations, particularly regarding domestic abuse, [[Ahmad Ali|Ahmed Ali]]'s English translation of the word ''idribu'' is "to forsake, avoid, or leave."{{Citation needed|date=April 2015}} His English translation of [[Quran 4:34]] is:
...As for women you feel are averse, talk to them cursively; then leave them alone in bed (without molesting them), and go to bed with them (when they are willing).<ref>{{cite web|url=http://irebd.com/quran/english/surah-4/verse-34/|title=Quran Surah An-Nisaa ( Verse 34 ) with English Translation الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنْفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ ۚ فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ حَافِظَاتٌ لِلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ۚ وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا|website=IReBD.com}}</ref> However, in his native Urdu translation of verse 4:34, he translates ''idribuhunna'' as "beatstrike them."<ref>{{cite web|last1=Ali|first1=Ahmed|title=34 القرآن, النساء|url=http://tanzil.net/#trans/ur.ahmedali/4:34|website=Tanzil.net|page=84|language=Urdu|quote=مرد عورتوں پر حاکم ہیں اس واسطے کہ الله نے ایک کو ایک پر فضیلت دی ہے اور اس واسطے کہ انہوں نے اپنے مال خرچ کیے ہیں پھر جو عورتیں نیک ہیں وہ تابعدار ہیں مردوں کے پیٹھ پیچھے الله کی نگرانی میں (ان کے حقوق کی) حفاظت کرتی ہیں اور جن عورتو ں سےتمہیں سرکشی کا خطرہ ہو تو انہیں سمجھاؤ اور سونے میں جدا کر دو اور مارو پھر اگر تمہارا کہا مان جائیں تو ان پر الزام لگانے کے لیے بہانے مت تلاش کرو بے شک الله سب سے اوپر بڑا ہے (34)}}</ref>
 
Laleh Bakhtiar postulates that ''daraba'' is defined as "to go away."<ref name=Bakhtiar>Bakhtiar, Laleh.[https://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/25/world/americas/25iht-koran.4.5017346.html?_r=1&pagewanted=all ''Verse in Koran on beating wife gets a new translation.''] NYTimes.com</ref> This interpretation is supported by the fact that the word ''darabtum'', which means to "go abroad" in the sake of Allah, is used in the same Surah (in 4:94) and is derived from
the same root word (''daraba'') as ''idribuhunna'' in 4:34.<ref name=4:94>Unknown author.
[http://www.islamawareness.net/Wife/beating1.html ''Systematic comparison with 4:94''] Islamawareness.net</ref> However, this translation is negated by the fact that most definitions of ''daraba'' in Edward William Lane's Arabic-English Lexicon are related to physical beating<ref>{{cite web|last1=William Lane |first1=Edward |title=Arabic-English Lexicon by Edward William Lane (London: Willams & Norgate 1863) |url=http://www.tyndalearchive.com/TABS/Lane/ |pages=1777–1783 |url-status=dead |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20150408021742/http://www.tyndalearchive.com/tabs/lane/ |archivedate=2015-04-08 }}</ref> and that when the root word ''daraba'' and its derivatives are used in the Qur'an in relation to humans or their body parts, it exclusively means physically beating or striking them with a [[Miswak|Siwak]](Toothbrush) (e.g. in [http://quran.com/2/73 Qur'an 2:73][http://quran.com/37/93 37:93], [http://quran.com/8/12 8:12], [http://quran.com/8/50 8:50], [http://quran.com/47/4 47:4] and [http://quran.com/47/27 47:27]).
 
===Hadith interpretations that support domestic violence===
Dr. Edyta Januszewska of the ''[[Maria Grzegorzewska]] Academy of Special Education'' in Warsaw and Dr. Stéphane Rullac of ''BUC Ressources (Paris region)'', have undertaken a study into ''Social problems in Europe: Dilemmas and possible solutions'' where they examined passages in the hadiths that appear to support domestic violence. They say, "All these passages sound alarming if taken letter by letter."<ref>{{cite web|url=https://kpfu.ru/staff_files/F1555215559/SOCIAL.PROBLEMS.IN.EUROPE..finalis_.3.pdf |title=Social problems in Europe: Dilemmas and possible solutions |first1=Edyta |last1= Januszewska|first2=Stéphane |last2= Rullac |p=222|quote= Passages coming from the Hadith maintain the idea of wife beating in the following verses: Bukhari (72:715) - A woman came to Muhammad and begged her to stop her husband from beating her. Her skin was bruised so badly that she it is described as being “greener” than the green veil she was wearing. Muhammad did not admonish her husband, but instead ordered her to return to him and submit to his sexual desires. In a different place, Aisha said: “I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women”. This is Muhammad's own wife complaining of the abuse that the women of her religions suffer relative to other women. In Hadith Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favourite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission. According to Abu Dawud (2141) at first, Muhammad forbade men from beating their wives, but he rescinded this once it was reported that women were becoming emboldened toward their husbands. “Beatings are sometimes necessary to keep women in their place”325. Abu Dawud (2126) describes a situation when a Muslim man thinks he is getting a virgin, then finds out she is pregnant. Muhammad tells him to treat the woman as a sex slave and then flog her after she has delivered the child. Ishaq/Hisham 969 - requires that a married woman be “put in a separate room and beaten lightly” if she “acts in a sexual manner toward others”. According to the Hadith, this can be for an offense as petty as merely being alone with a man to whom she is not related. Kash-shaf (the revealer) of al-Zamkhshari (Vol. 1, p.525) - Muhammad said: “Hang up your scourge where your wife can see it (...). | date=2013|work=[[L’Harmattan]] |accessdate=21 February 2020}}</ref>
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=== Jurisprudence and reality ===
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In deference to Surah 4:34, many nations with Shari'a law have refused to consider or prosecute cases of "domestic abuse."<ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Fluehr-Lobban | first1 = Carolyn | last2 = Bardsley-Sirois | first2 = Lois | year = 1990 | title = Obedience (Ta'a) in Muslim Marriage: Religious Interpretation and Applied Law in Egypt | url = | journal = Journal of Comparative Family Studies | volume = 21 | issue = 1| pages = 39–53 }}</ref><ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Maghraoui | first1 = Abdeslam | year = 2001 | title = Political authority in crisis: Mohammed VI's Morocco | url = | journal = Middle East Report | volume = 218 | issue = | pages = 12–17 }}</ref><ref>Critelli, Filomena M. "Women's rights= Human rights: Pakistani women against gender violence." ''J. Soc. & Soc. Welfare'' 2010; 37, pages 135-142</ref><ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Oweis | first1 = Arwa |display-authors=etal | year = 2009 | title = Violence Against Women Unveiling the Suffering of Women with a Low Income in Jordan | url = | journal = Journal of Transcultural Nursing | volume = 20 | issue = 1| pages = 69–76 }}</ref> In 2010, the highest court of United Arab Emirates (Federal Supreme Court) considered a lower court's ruling, and upheld a husband's right to "chastise" his wife and children physically. Article 53 of the United Arab Emirates' penal code acknowledges the right of a "chastisement by a husband to his wife and the chastisement of minor children" so long as the assault does not exceed the limits prescribed by Shari'a.<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.hrw.org/news/2010/10/19/uae-spousal-abuse-never-right|title=UAE: Spousal Abuse Never a ‘Right’ - Human Rights Watch|work=hrw.org}}</ref> The [[Council of Islamic Ideology]], a constitutional body of Pakistan that advises the government on the compatibility of laws with Islam, has recommended authorizing husbands to ‘lightly’ beat disobedient wives.<ref>[http://dunyanews.tv/en/Pakistan/338423-CII-recommends-light-beating-for-wife-if-she-def CII recommends 'light beating' for wife if she defies husband] 26 May 2016.</ref> In Lebanon, KAFA, an organization campaigning against violence and the exploitation of women, alleges that as many as three-quarters of all Lebanese females have suffered physically at the hands of husbands or male relatives at some point in their lives. An effort has been underway to remove domestic violence cases from Shari'a driven religious courts to civil penal code driven courts.<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.irinnews.org/report/86247/lebanon-move-to-take-domestic-violence-cases-out-of-religious-courts|title=IRIN Middle East - LEBANON: Move to take domestic violence cases out of religious courts - Lebanon - Gender Issues - Governance - Human Rights|work=IRINnews}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.hrw.org/news/2011/07/06/lebanon-enact-family-violence-bill-protect-women|title=Lebanon: Enact Family Violence Bill to Protect Women - Human Rights Watch|work=hrw.org}}</ref> Social workers claim failure of religious courts in addressing numerous instances of domestic abuse in Syria, Pakistan, Egypt, Palestine, Morocco, Iran, Yemen and Saudi Arabia.<ref>Moha Ennaji and Fatima Sadiq, ''Gender and Violence in the Middle East'', Routledge (2011), {{ISBN|978-0-415-59411-0}}; see pages 162-247</ref> In 2013 Saudi Arabia approved a new law on domestic violence, which sets penalties for all types of sexual and physical abuse, in the workplace and at home. Penalties can be up to a year in prison and a fine up to 13,000 dollars. The law also provides shelter for the victims of domestic violence.<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-23872152 |title=Saudi Arabia cabinet approves domestic abuse ban|work=[[BBC NEWS]]|date=28 August 2013}}</ref>
 
=== UndesirablityUndesirability of beating ===
[[File:A comparison of acceptance of domestic violence in select Arab and Muslim majority countries, UNICEF 2013.png|thumb|Percentage of women aged 15–49 who think that a husband/partner is justified in hitting his wife/partner under certain circumstances, in some Arab and Muslim majority countries, according to UNICEF (2013)<ref>[http://www.childinfo.org/attitudes_data.php Percentage of women aged 15–49 who think that a husband/partner is justified in hitting or beating his wife/partner under certain circumstances] {{webarchive |url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140704112113/http://www.childinfo.org/attitudes_data.php |date=July 4, 2014 }} UNICEF (2013)</ref>]]
 
Scholars and commentators have stated that Muhammad directed men not to hit their wives' faces,<ref name="mau">"Towards Understanding the Qur'an" Translation by Zafar I. Ansari from "Tafheem Al-Qur'an" by Syed Abul-A'ala Mawdudi, Islamic Foundation, Leicester, England. Passage was quoted from commentary on 4:34.</ref> not to beat their wives in such a way as would leave marks on their body,<ref name="mau"/>{{refn|Muhammad is attributed to say in [[the Farewell Sermon]]: "And if they commit open sexual misconduct you have the right to leave them alone in their beds and [if even then, they do not listen] beat them such that this should not leave any mark on them." [[Sunan Ibn Maja]] 1841.|group=nb}} and not to beat their wives as to cause pain (''ghayr mubarrih'').<ref name="asad">[[Muhammad Asad]], ''The Message of the Qur'an'' (his translation of the Qur'an).</ref> Scholars too have stipulated against beating or disfigurement, with others such as the Syrian jurist [[Ibn Abidin]] prescribing ''[[Tazir|ta'zir]]'' punishments against abusive husbands.<ref name=eowaic>Encyclopedia of Women and Islamic cultures, p. 122</ref>
In a certain hadidthhadith, Muhammad discouraged beating one's wife severely:
 
Bahz bin Hakim reported on the authority of his father from his grandfather (Mu'awiyah ibn Haydah) as saying: