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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARBFM dot com.
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Click on submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're going to read this one right here,
right now, and you never know it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We
got it for it. You here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Thanking of you. Subject. You can't blame that on the medicine.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty two year old married
woman and my husband is fifty six. We've been married
for fifteen years and he's taken me through a lot
of ups and downs. When we met, he told me
that he had just had a baby by a woman
that he only had sex with one time. A few
years later, I found out that he was not supporting
the child, and when things got ugly, the woman called
(00:48):
me and said my husband used to pay her for sex.
I was sir hurt because he didn't tell me any
of that, and he calls himself a deacon at the church.
He ended up having to be paid child support to
this woman. Then, six years into our marriage, the woman
called me again and said she had been sleeping with
my husband.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
My husband called her a liar, and I stood by him.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Over the years, we spent a lot of time with
his son, and the woman hasn't been tripping. About a
month ago, my husband had to have his appendix taken
out and he was put under anesthesia. When he came
to after surgery, he called out for the woman, his
son's mother. I was furious, but I didn't act up
(01:32):
in the hospital. I later told him what he did,
and he said it was a medicine and he must
have been upset with her and subconsciously said her name.
I checked in with the woman to see if she'd
been talking to my husband for anything other than her son.
She said he'd been calling her again, and my heart sank.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Right after that.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I could have sworn he called her name while we
were making love, but he denied it over and over.
I don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him, and my intuition says he's still sleeping with her.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Do I investigate further.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Or should I let it go and trust my man?
Trust your man?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Trust?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Your gut, trust your intuition here, because he's already proven
that he's untrustworthy. Okay, he's lied to you about his
relationship with the woman a few times. He said he
had a baby buyer. She said that he was paying
her for sex. You said, during your fifteen years of marriage,
he's taking you through a lot of ups and downs,
and mostly having to do with this woman. Thank god
(02:32):
he started paying child support because I'm sure you don't
want to be with the deadbeat dad, even though the
son isn't biologically yours, but you were taking care of
him and helping him and everything. Him calling you the
baby's mama during sex. I know that had to hurt.
He lied about that, but investigating further means what.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
It doesn't mean anything. He's not going to tell you
the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
He hasn't so far, and she will tell you everything,
probably hoping to get him back. So in this instance,
trust your instincts, trust your intuition, Steve, I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Know who decide with right here in this letter because
it's just so all over the place. You fifty two,
your husband fifty six. I've been married fifteen years. He's
taken you through a lot of ups and downs. When
you first met me, he told me he had just
had a baby by a woman that he only had
(03:28):
sex with one time. A few years later I found
out he was not supporting the child. And when things
got ugly, the woman called me and said, my husband
used to pay her for sex. All right, let's stop
right here. This woman called you and told you that
(03:49):
your husband used to pay her for sex. Now, I
ain't trying to be in your.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Business, but what is this call? Come on, what is
this call?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Well, to keep it real, radioish, this is called prostitution.
That's what it is. It's one of the oldest professions
in the world when women charge.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Men and men pay for sexual favors.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So now the prostitute calls you and tells you that
he used to pay her for sex. All right. I
was so hurt because he didn't tell me any of that.
And he calls himself a decon at the church. Well,
just in defense of him, he didn't tell you any
of that. I don't none of us would have told you,
(04:46):
none of us. That ain't no information. We fit the
volunteer on the fact that here decon at the church
ain't got nothing new with the mailman, ain't gonna tell
you that. I'm gonna tell you that right now. Though
uber driving ain't gonna share that prim from with you.
Or the dude to drive a Pepsi truck, he not
gonna tell you that either. It's a lot of people
ain't gonna tell you that right here. The guy to
working for a motor company, dude on the piggy line
(05:09):
at the uae aud or the u a w Audo
strike right now, ain't gonna come out and tell you
he used to pay a woman for sex. Ain't nobody
gonna do that. And he calls himself a deacon at
the church. Well, that ain't nothing new either. He ended
up having to back pay child support to this woman
as he should. Then, six years until our marriage, the
(05:31):
woman called me again and said she had been sleeping
with my husband. My husband called her a liar, and
I stood by him. Who is this woman that keep
making the damn call? I ain't seen nobody she busied
every time she want to get in your head, she
make a call. Now, she didn't told you to sleep
(05:53):
with your husband. Your husband called her a lie and
I stood bye. Well, I can't tell you who who
and all this, he but she shuw him make a
lot of interest in ass calls. First time she called
you and told she was prostitute, that was that's the
hell of information, volunteer. I don't know a lot of
women make that phone call. Anyway. Over the years, we
(06:15):
spent a lot of time with his son, and the
woman hasn't been tripping well because you paid that back
child support. So now we're good. About a month ago,
my husband had to have his appendix taken out and
he was put on the anastasia. When he came out
after surgery, he called out for the woman, his son's mother,
and I was serious, but I didn't act up in
the hospital. Oh well, you didn't act out in the hospital.
(06:38):
But when we come back, we'll find out where the
acting out start.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
All right, parton two of Sea's responses, coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter.
Subject You can't blame that on the medicine. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Nothing feels as good as driving a new Hondai. And
now you can get a great deal on your face
favorite model at the Hondaid Getaway Sales event. Make your
next getaway your best one yet. Visit Hondai USA dot
com today. Drive away now in one of their most
popular models with zero percent APR and zero payments for
(07:17):
ninety days only doing the Hondai Getaway Sales event. All
free ends January second. Call five six two three.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
One four four six zero three for details.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
All right, come on, Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject you can't blame that on the medicine.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Woman married to a man been going through ups and
downs to be married fifteen years. When they first met,
he told her that he was having a baby by
woman he had sex with one time. Later on, the
woman called him and said, now your husband had been
paying her.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
To have sex. That's called prostitution.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
You was upset because he calls himself a deacon after
church ended up having to backpay child support. And then
six years into the marriage, the woman called again and said,
your husband was sleeping with him. Your husband said he
was a lie. You stood by your man, and because
you know she ain't make no big deal of it,
I guess and the husband so anyway, over the years,
(08:13):
y'all to spent a lot of time with his son
and the woman ain't been tripping. That's because he paid
that back child's support. About a month ago, my husband
had to have appendix taking out. He was out and
put on the anesthesia. When he came out after surgery,
he called out for the woman, his son's mother. I
was furious, but I didn't act up in the hospital.
I later told him what he did, and he said
(08:34):
it was the medicine and he must have been upset
with her and subconsciously said her name, perfect response, absolutely
perfectly you and five boy, boy, that's higher, that's higher. Whoo.
That was nice. That was nice. Number one, it was
(08:55):
a fact in there. It was probably the medicine. See
that right there, that's a fact. And then what he said,
he was upset with her and probably subconsciously said her name.
All that sound good? That was perfect right there. Woo,
that was that was classic.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I can't even you love that one.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Scale of one to ten, you get you get a
ten point two for that one.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Anyway, I checked in with the woman to see if
she'd been talking to my husband for anything other than
her son. She said he's been calling her again, and
my heart saan, well, but listen to me. You just
said she'd been You asked her if she'd been talking
(09:45):
to your husband for anything other than their son. The
woman said, he's been calling her again, and my heart saint.
The woman could be lying. He's been calling her again.
They've been talking about the son. Did she tell you
what he been calling again? Talking about?
Speaker 4 (10:03):
My heart sank?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
This woman right here is in the heart sinking business.
I wouldn't put a lot of weight behind too much
of nothing, she say. But anyway, okay, right after that,
I could have sworn he called me her name while
we were making love, but he denied it.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
Over and on.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
You say you could have sworn, Now, that means you
didn't quite hear it. I could have sworn. See that
means you didn't quite hear.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
It her ears.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
See, I'm not really sure about that. I'm not really sure.
But you say I could have sworn, now, you either
heard somebody else's name or not. Now, unless your name
is Claire, uh huh, come on, and her name is Pierre,
(10:57):
we gotta have a sounder like in here something. What
is her name? I wish you to put y'all name
in this letter so I could have seen how you
could have thought. You said that other name, because what
could he have said other than your name that would make.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
You I could have sworn.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
See now you reach it. You either heard it and
you can't. A woman know her damn name? It ain't No,
I could have sworn he called her. Now I'm telling you.
You know what your name is. You know if he
called you another name or not? Right? No, sir, Now
(11:40):
you know if your name Deborah and her name didre
Now we got to work through that. Deborah, did you
know you could have been yawn or what you heard?
You know? Yeah, choosing suan not right where? We got
a little problem in here, see right there, So I
(12:05):
don't know. I can't help you with this right here.
I don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him. You don't know what kind of hole she got?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
What kind of hole? Does she have? A ros D?
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You really, you really don't even have to. You can
change one letter in there and it explains at all.
You don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him. Hold it spelled h O l D. Whole
is spelled h O l E. See, once again, you
(12:43):
could have sworn he said your name. Now you don't
know what kind of hold this woman has over him.
I do. I know exactly what it is, and you
know it. We're not taking this out. This is good
ass radio. I could have sworn she said my name.
(13:08):
I could have sworn you saying I don't know what
kind of hole, okay, hole she has over him. Whole
sounds a lot like hold you see what I'm saying
if you're confusion, But I've got confused at all.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
On Instagram at Steve hold it on and check out.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
So very hot you dude, when love's gone.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Get up, Carla on the Free iHeartRadio app where free
never sounded so good. All right, more of this crazy
ignorant show.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning
Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARBFM dot com.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Click on submit Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're going to read this one right here,
right now, and you never know it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We
got it for it. You here. It is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Thanking of you. Subject. You can't blame that on the medicine.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty two year old married
woman and my husband is fifty six. We've been married
for fifteen years and he's taken me through a lot
of ups and downs. When we met, he told me
that he had just had a baby by a woman
that he only had sex with one time. A few
years later, I found out that he was not supporting
the child, and when things got ugly, the woman called
(00:48):
me and said my husband used to pay her for sex.
I was sir hurt because he didn't tell me any
of that, and he calls himself a deacon at the church.
He ended up having to be paid child support to
this woman. Then, six years into our marriage, the woman
called me again and said she had been sleeping with
my husband.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
My husband called her a liar, and I stood by him.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Over the years, we spent a lot of time with
his son, and the woman hasn't been tripping. About a
month ago, my husband had to have his appendix taken
out and he was put under anesthesia. When he came
to after surgery, he called out for the woman, his
son's mother. I was furious, but I didn't act up
(01:32):
in the hospital. I later told him what he did,
and he said it was a medicine and he must
have been upset with her and subconsciously said her name.
I checked in with the woman to see if she'd
been talking to my husband for anything other than her son.
She said he'd been calling her again, and my heart sank.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Right after that.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I could have sworn he called her name while we
were making love, but he denied it over and over.
I don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him, and my intuition says he's still sleeping with her.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Do I investigate further.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Or should I let it go and trust my man?
Trust your man?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Trust?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Your gut, trust your intuition here, because he's already proven
that he's untrustworthy. Okay, he's lied to you about his
relationship with the woman a few times. He said he
had a baby buyer. She said that he was paying
her for sex. You said, during your fifteen years of marriage,
he's taking you through a lot of ups and downs,
and mostly having to do with this woman. Thank god
(02:32):
he started paying child support because I'm sure you don't
want to be with the deadbeat dad, even though the
son isn't biologically yours, but you were taking care of
him and helping him and everything. Him calling you the
baby's mama during sex. I know that had to hurt.
He lied about that, but investigating further means what.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
It doesn't mean anything. He's not going to tell you
the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
He hasn't so far, and she will tell you everything,
probably hoping to get him back. So in this instance,
trust your instincts, trust your intuition, Steve, I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Know who decide with right here in this letter because
it's just so all over the place. You fifty two,
your husband fifty six. I've been married fifteen years. He's
taken you through a lot of ups and downs. When
you first met me, he told me he had just
had a baby by a woman that he only had
(03:28):
sex with one time. A few years later I found
out he was not supporting the child. And when things
got ugly, the woman called me and said, my husband
used to pay her for sex. All right, let's stop
right here. This woman called you and told you that
(03:49):
your husband used to pay her for sex. Now, I
ain't trying to be in your.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Business, but what is this call? Come on, what is
this call?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Well, to keep it real, radioish, this is called prostitution.
That's what it is. It's one of the oldest professions
in the world when women charge.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Men and men pay for sexual favors.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So now the prostitute calls you and tells you that
he used to pay her for sex. All right. I
was so hurt because he didn't tell me any of that.
And he calls himself a decon at the church. Well,
just in defense of him, he didn't tell you any
of that. I don't none of us would have told you,
(04:46):
none of us. That ain't no information. We fit the
volunteer on the fact that here decon at the church
ain't got nothing new with the mailman, ain't gonna tell
you that. I'm gonna tell you that right now. Though
uber driving ain't gonna share that prim from with you.
Or the dude to drive a Pepsi truck, he not
gonna tell you that either. It's a lot of people
ain't gonna tell you that right here. The guy to
working for a motor company, dude on the piggy line
(05:09):
at the uae aud or the u a w Audo
strike right now, ain't gonna come out and tell you
he used to pay a woman for sex. Ain't nobody
gonna do that. And he calls himself a deacon at
the church. Well, that ain't nothing new either. He ended
up having to back pay child support to this woman
as he should. Then, six years until our marriage, the
(05:31):
woman called me again and said she had been sleeping
with my husband. My husband called her a liar, and
I stood by him. Who is this woman that keep
making the damn call? I ain't seen nobody she busied
every time she want to get in your head, she
make a call. Now, she didn't told you to sleep
(05:53):
with your husband. Your husband called her a lie and
I stood bye. Well, I can't tell you who who
and all this, he but she shuw him make a
lot of interest in ass calls. First time she called
you and told she was prostitute, that was that's the
hell of information, volunteer. I don't know a lot of
women make that phone call. Anyway. Over the years, we
(06:15):
spent a lot of time with his son, and the
woman hasn't been tripping well because you paid that back
child support. So now we're good. About a month ago,
my husband had to have his appendix taken out and
he was put on the anastasia. When he came out
after surgery, he called out for the woman, his son's mother,
and I was serious, but I didn't act up in
the hospital. Oh well, you didn't act out in the hospital.
(06:38):
But when we come back, we'll find out where the
acting out start.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
All right, parton two of Sea's responses, coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter.
Subject You can't blame that on the medicine. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Nothing feels as good as driving a new Hondai. And
now you can get a great deal on your face
favorite model at the Hondaid Getaway Sales event. Make your
next getaway your best one yet. Visit Hondai USA dot
com today. Drive away now in one of their most
popular models with zero percent APR and zero payments for
(07:17):
ninety days only doing the Hondai Getaway Sales event. All
free ends January second. Call five six two three.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
One four four six zero three for details.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
All right, come on, Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject you can't blame that on the medicine.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Woman married to a man been going through ups and
downs to be married fifteen years. When they first met,
he told her that he was having a baby by
woman he had sex with one time. Later on, the
woman called him and said, now your husband had been
paying her.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
To have sex. That's called prostitution.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
You was upset because he calls himself a deacon after
church ended up having to backpay child support. And then
six years into the marriage, the woman called again and said,
your husband was sleeping with him. Your husband said he
was a lie. You stood by your man, and because
you know she ain't make no big deal of it,
I guess and the husband so anyway, over the years,
(08:13):
y'all to spent a lot of time with his son
and the woman ain't been tripping. That's because he paid
that back child's support. About a month ago, my husband
had to have appendix taking out. He was out and
put on the anesthesia. When he came out after surgery,
he called out for the woman, his son's mother. I
was furious, but I didn't act up in the hospital.
I later told him what he did, and he said
(08:34):
it was the medicine and he must have been upset
with her and subconsciously said her name, perfect response, absolutely
perfectly you and five boy, boy, that's higher, that's higher. Whoo.
That was nice. That was nice. Number one, it was
(08:55):
a fact in there. It was probably the medicine. See
that right there, that's a fact. And then what he said,
he was upset with her and probably subconsciously said her name.
All that sound good? That was perfect right there. Woo,
that was that was classic.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I can't even you love that one.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Scale of one to ten, you get you get a
ten point two for that one.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Anyway, I checked in with the woman to see if
she'd been talking to my husband for anything other than
her son. She said he's been calling her again, and
my heart saan, well, but listen to me. You just
said she'd been You asked her if she'd been talking
(09:45):
to your husband for anything other than their son. The
woman said, he's been calling her again, and my heart saint.
The woman could be lying. He's been calling her again.
They've been talking about the son. Did she tell you
what he been calling again? Talking about?
Speaker 4 (10:03):
My heart sank?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
This woman right here is in the heart sinking business.
I wouldn't put a lot of weight behind too much
of nothing, she say. But anyway, okay, right after that,
I could have sworn he called me her name while
we were making love, but he denied it.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
Over and on.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
You say you could have sworn, Now, that means you
didn't quite hear it. I could have sworn. See that
means you didn't quite hear.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
It her ears.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
See, I'm not really sure about that. I'm not really sure.
But you say I could have sworn, now, you either
heard somebody else's name or not. Now, unless your name
is Claire, uh huh, come on, and her name is Pierre,
(10:57):
we gotta have a sounder like in here something. What
is her name? I wish you to put y'all name
in this letter so I could have seen how you
could have thought. You said that other name, because what
could he have said other than your name that would make.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
You I could have sworn.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
See now you reach it. You either heard it and
you can't. A woman know her damn name? It ain't No,
I could have sworn he called her. Now I'm telling you.
You know what your name is. You know if he
called you another name or not? Right? No, sir, Now
(11:40):
you know if your name Deborah and her name didre
Now we got to work through that. Deborah, did you
know you could have been yawn or what you heard?
You know? Yeah, choosing suan not right where? We got
a little problem in here, see right there, So I
(12:05):
don't know. I can't help you with this right here.
I don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him. You don't know what kind of hole she got?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
What kind of hole? Does she have? A ros D?
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You really, you really don't even have to. You can
change one letter in there and it explains at all.
You don't know what kind of hole this woman has
over him. Hold it spelled h O l D. Whole
is spelled h O l E. See, once again, you
(12:43):
could have sworn he said your name. Now you don't
know what kind of hold this woman has over him.
I do. I know exactly what it is, and you
know it. We're not taking this out. This is good
ass radio. I could have sworn she said my name.
(13:08):
I could have sworn you saying I don't know what
kind of hole, okay, hole she has over him. Whole
sounds a lot like hold you see what I'm saying
if you're confusion, But I've got confused at all.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
On Instagram at Steve hold it on and check out.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
So very hot you dude, when love's gone.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Get up, Carla on the Free iHeartRadio app where free
never sounded so good. All right, more of this crazy
ignorant show.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning
Show
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