Lean in close, my friends, because I’m going to let you in on some major knowledge: You can manifest sex and love. It works. I’ve done it. So can you! And by using astrology and magic in tandem, you’re tipping all of the luck in your direction. But before I dive into tips for each zodiac sign, let’s start with some basics.
What is manifestation, anyway?
Manifestation is the ability to make something happen. I like to think of it as: intention + action + energy = results. Everyone has the ability to manifest something. However, it is always important to remember the two-pronged approach: Use a ritual to tell the universe what you want, and then put in real-world effort towards your goal. For instance, if you're manifesting love, you can't just sit on your couch and expect your dream partner to show up and sit next to you as you're watching House of the Dragon. You need to put active effort into meeting new people, joining dating apps, or reaching out to your crushes and asking them out.
*When* can I manifest?
Technically, you can manifest anytime you want to! However, there are certain times that can tip the scales even further in your favor, astrologically.
Manifesting Sex and Love With A New Moon
New Moons open the door to new beginnings, and you can use actions to show the universe your intent to bring something *specific* into your lives. For example, you could create a sigil for your intention—aka a unique symbol that carries a very specific meaning. For best results, don’t use a symbol that already has symbolic meaning. Instead, make your own!
Manifesting Sex and Love With A Full Moon
Full Moons occur when the Moon is at its brightest. These are times when our emotions get more fervent and our passions are activated. They're associated with endings, turning points, breakthroughs, or breakdowns. A Full Moon is strongest on the exact date it reaches its totality, but you can tap into a Full Moon’s energy for two to three days before or after as well. One of the best ways to manifest during a Full Moon is to use a candle ritual. Think of this as lifting your goals up through the fire so they can become your newfound reality.
Using Astrology to Manifest Sex and Love
In astrology, each planet has its own attributes and we can use planetary movements—also known as transits—to further tip manifestation in our favor.
Specifically, you can use the Moon (representing emotional sensitivity), the Sun (representing radiance and power), Venus (the planet of attraction and beauty), Mars (the planet of sex appeal, passion, and drive), or Jupiter (the planet of luck) to manifest sex and love. If any of these planets are in your Sun sign (or Rising sign), you'll have an easier time tapping into their energy. For example, if you're a Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius is a great time for you.
No matter what your birth chart looks like, when it comes to sex and love, there are three particular zodiac signs for everyone to pay attention to. First, there's Leo, the zodiac sign that rules dating, courtship, and romance. Next, there's Libra, the zodiac sign that rules partnerships and marriage. Finally, there's Scorpio, the zodiac sign that rules sensuality and sexuality. When the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or Jupiter are in one of these three signs, your sex and love manifestation rituals will have an extra boost of power.
While you can check out a handy ephemeris to track the planetary movements, websites like mine also list when these events happen throughout the year.
Manifesting Sex and Love For Each Zodiac Sign
Because of the way the stars are aligned, each zodiac sign has an extra edge in ~seduction~ whenever the Moon, the Sun, Venus, Mars, or Jupiter are in their zodiac sign. Mark these dates on your GCal so you can strike while the iron is hot! However, you also have extra luck on your side when you use *other* times of the year, as well. Here’s a list of the best timings and a ritual for you!
ARIES
Timing: Whenever Aries, Leo, Libra, or Scorpio energy is activated, especially during Aries season (March 21 to April 19), Leo season (July 23 to August 22), Libra season (September 23 to October 22), and Scorpio season (October 23 to November 21).
Ritual: Create a present-tense, single-sentence intention that describes what you want to manifest around sex and love: Something like "I am magnetic" or "My lover comes to me now." Focus your thoughts on your intention and repeat it in your mind as you light some incense. Imagine the smoke embodying your intention and filling the space around you to draw it in.
Aries: Burn Incense
SacredMists Love Drawing Incense Sticks
House of Intuition Love Incense
Satya 3 Pack of Love Spell Incense Sticks
Pretti.Cool Incense Holder
TAURUS
Timing: Whenever Virgo, Scorpio, or Sagittarius energy is activated, particularly during Virgo season (August 23 to September 22), Scorpio season (October 23 to November 21), and Sagittarius season (November 22 to December 21).
Ritual: If you have a few crystals, create a crystal grid to tap into their energy. Search Google Images/Instagram/Pinterest/wherever for "crystal grid" and choose a design you like. Then, print out or simply mirror that design, using 4-10 crystals to create a grid. Place a quartz crystal in the center to act as an "anchor stone" for your intention—you can even write your intention on a piece of paper and put it under the quartz. Place other crystals around your anchor stone in a pattern to help support it. Choose stones associated with love and sex, like rose quartz, garnet, and moonstone. Finally, sit near your grid and meditate on your intention. Bonus points if you do so regularly, like once a week.
Taurus: Make a Crystal Grid
PeachAndPixie 5 Crystals for Love
ZenAndMeow Love Crystal Grid
GEMINI
Timing: Whenever Libra, Sagittarius, or Capricorn energy is activated, particularly during Libra (September 23 to October 22), Sagittarius season (November 22 to December 21), and Capricorn season (December 22 to January 19).
Ritual: Create a mantra around sex and love and repeat it. A mantra should be a present-tense statement, like, “My life is filled with passionate love,” or “Love is everywhere,” or “I am open to my soulmate now and forever.” Do this on a regular schedule—such as once a day—as you focus your thoughts on your mantra. This helps you subconsciously begin to believe it is true.
Gemini: Write a Mantra
JaxKelly Self Love Shower Affirmation Cards
Pretty Spirits Manifestation Journal Pen
Limitless Abundance Manifestation Journal
Rock Point Find Your Mantra: Inspire and Empower Your Life with 75 Positive Affirmations
CANCER
Timing: Whenever Scorpio, Capricorn, or Aquarius energy is activated, especially during Scorpio season (October 23 to November 21), Capricorn season (December 22 to January 19), and Aquarius season (January 20 to February 18).
Ritual: Make a talisman—or a piece of jewelry infused with your intention. You can use a piece of jewelry you already own, such as a ring, necklace, or bracelet, or buy a new one from a metaphysical shop. Turn that ring into a manifestation tool by holding an essential oil in your hand as you focus on sex or love. Then, use your fingers to transfer a few drops of the oil into the talisman as you imagine white light flowing from the oil and covering the jewelry. This talisman will now magnetize your desire to you.
Cancer: Make a Talisman
House of Intuition Heart Protection Amulet Necklace
Haus of Hoodoo Love Me Condition Oil
Aba Love Apothecary Divine Me Anointing Oil
Sun and Selene Luna Ring
LEO
Timing: Whenever Sagittarius, Aquarius, or Pisces energy are activated, like during Sagittarius season (November 22 to December 21), Aquarius season (January 20 to February 18), and Pisces season (February 19 to March 20).
Ritual: Make an "I am" intention—like "I am worthy of love" or "I am confident and sexy"—and write it on your mirror. Repeat it out loud to yourself as you stare into your own eyes in the mirror. Do this once a day or several times a week for a month.
Leo: Set an Intention
Cheer Collection Pack of 5 Washable Pens for Writing on Glass or Mirrors
Tarisha Clark I Am Everything Affirmation Card Deck
Aulock Gradient Felt Letter Board with LED Lights
VIRGO
Timing: Whenever Capricorn, Pisces, or Aries energy is activated, like Capricorn season (December 22 to January 19), Pisces season (February 19 to March 20), and Aries season (March 21 to April 19).
Ritual: Write a nature-focused intention like “My romantic life blooms and flourishes,” “My beauty grows immensely," or "I feast, bathe, and revel in sexual desire" down on a piece of paper and bury it in the earth. Repeat the intention to yourself as you do so.
Virgo: Plant Your Intention
Love Rustic Plantable Seed Paper
Modern Sprout Grow Kit - Replant Kit
WANDERINGS White Deckle Edge Paper Cards with Real Flower Petals
Tropical Plants of Florida European Fan Palm
LIBRA
Timing: Whenever Aquarius, Aries, or Taurus energy are activated, especially Aquarius season (January 20 to February 18), Aries season (March 21 to April 19), and Taurus season (April 20 to May 20).
Ritual: Build a manifestation playlist that puts you in ~the mood~ for sex and love. Every time you listen to this playlist, envision your love life growing. Don’t include sad heartbreak songs—that’s *not* the energy you want!
Libra: Make a Manifestation Playlist
TheUnleashedPen Personalized Playlist Code
Generic Custom Acrylic Song Plaque
SCORPIO
Timing: Whenever Pisces, Taurus, or Gemini energy is activated, such as Pisces season (February 19 to March 20), Taurus season (April 20 to May 20), and Gemini season (May 21 to June 21).
Ritual: It's time for a ritual bath. Add bath salts and essential oils associated with love, like jasmine or lavender. As you lay in the bath, imagine the love life you desire, as if it is soaking into your soul. If you wish, once you dry off, you can rub lotion or essential oils into your skin to draw in ~the energy of romance~.
Scorpio: Take a Ritual Bath
Heritage Apothecary The Venus Bath Ritual Kit
Love Body Butter
LalusRootsNConjure Honey Pot Love Potion Bath Salts
House of Intuition Love Bath Bomb
SAGITTARIUS
Timing: Whenever Aries, Gemini, or Cancer energy is activated, like Aries season (March 21 to April 19), Gemini season (May 21 to June 20), and Cancer season (June 21 to July 22).
Ritual: Turn exercise into a ritual by focusing your complete attention on your goal as you move your bod. For example, if you're a hiker, turn imagine that with each step you take, you’re walking closer to your perfect partner. Keep your thoughts on your actions and your goal for the entirety of your session, knowing to your core that this is going to happen.
Sagittarius: Work It Out
Girlfriend Collective Plum High-Rise Pocket Bike Short
Outdoor Voices FrostKnit Hoodie
Gymshark Phone Strap
CAPRICORN
Timing: Whenever Taurus, Cancer, or Leo energy is activated, like Taurus season (April 20 to May 20), Cancer season (June 21 to July 22), and Leo season (July 23 to August 22).
Ritual: Choose two identical items, like chess pieces or bookends. These are embodiments of you and another. Place them across from each other on a table. Each day, move them slightly closer together, as you attract your desired reality.
Capricorn: Paired Ritual
Agate Stone Bookends
House of Intuition Rose Quartz Heart
FlorestaDesignsGoods Handmade Rainbow Bookend
AQUARIUS
Timing: Whenever Gemini, Leo, or Virgo energy is activated, particularly Gemini season (May 21 to June 20), Leo season (July 23 to August 22), and Virgo season (August 23 to September 22).
Ritual: Time for some breathwork. Take a deep breath for four counts, hold your breath for four counts, then breathe out for four counts. As you breathe in, imagine white light coming into your body, bringing in peace, romance, and trust. As you breathe out, picture whatever you want to get rid of—like insecurity, loneliness, or codependency—escaping your body as black smoke. Repeat this process for several minutes over several days.
Aquarius: Breathwork Ritual
BreatheCardDeck Breathe. Card Deck
EarthnAirCreations Embodied Breathing Beads
PISCES
Timing: Whenever Cancer, Virgo, or Libra energy is activated, like Cancer season (June 21 to July 22), Virgo season (August 23 to September 22), and Libra season (September 23 to October 22).
Ritual: Take a tarot deck and select cards that represent what you want to manifest, like the Ace of Cups (new love), Two of Cups (romance), Three of Cups (friendship), Ten of Cups (emotional fulfillment), Page of Cups (new romance), Knight of Cups (a romantic suitor), the Empress (beauty), the Lovers (a soul mate), the Star (renewal), or the Sun (joy). Create an at-home altar by placing these cards somewhere you can look at them regularly, like on top of your dresser or on a windowsill. After you've made your altar, light some incense or a candle and focus on the images of the cards, knowing you’re creating your reality.
Pisces: Get Out Your Tarot Cards
Roote Tarot Collection - The Lovers
House of Intuition The Empress - Tarot Incense Burner
Mystic Mondays The Sun Print
Kyle Thomas is a globally recognized pop culture astrologer who has been featured on _Access Hollywood, E! Entertainment, NBC & ABC television, Cosmopolitan Magazine, the New York Post, Page Six, Hulu, Seventeen Magazine, Bustle, Elite Daily and more. He is known for his cosmic guidance for celebrities, business executives, and prominent influencers. His work harnesses the power of the stars in regards to entertainment lifestyle and trends affecting people worldwide. Currently, he is the official astrologer for @Horoscopes + @Horo.ScopesDaily. Kyle received two Bachelor of Arts for Psychology and English from the University of Wisconsin-Madison and integrates these degrees into his growing research of psychology, personality, and the human condition.
