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Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets: 5 Questions to Help You Determine Your Next Move Kindle Edition

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Set yourself up for success in every season of life, for the rest of your life.

Discover five game-changing questions to ask every time you make a major decision regarding your finances, relationships, career, and more.

Good questions lead to better decisions. And your decisions determine the direction and quality of your life—they create the story of your life. And while nobody plans to complicate their life with bad decisions, far too many people have no plan to make good decisions.

In Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets, Andy Stanley—pastor and bestselling author of Irresistible and Not In It To Win It—will help you learn from experience and stop making bad decisions by integrating five questions into every decision you make, big or small.

This book will help you live differently by showing you how to:

  • Develop a decision-making filter that reveals which choices will likely lead to positive results.
  • Avoid selling yourself on bad ideas and making quick decisions when time is short.
  • Find truth and clarity in any tricky decision.
  • Improve relationships and heal division through better decisions.
  • Discover the reasons behind your decisions so you can move forward with positive changes.
  • Consider the long-term impact of your choices so you can write a life story worth celebrating.
  • Easily identify any red flags that signal which decisions may result in future regrets.

 


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Want to make better decisions? Who doesn't?

Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets offers personal stories, practical advice and relatable content to help you think wisely about the decisions you make and the impact they'll have on your life. Great for personal or group study, this book is sure to leave you feeling prepared to tackle life's choices.

What's being said about Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets:

Max Lucado

“Classic Andy—accessible to any of us wanting to change, yet deep enough to challenge you if you think you know the answers.”

- Max Lucado, pastor and New York Times bestselling author

Bob Goff

"This is the right book for the right time. We've got some important decisions to make, and this book will help frame the right questions to ask."

- Bob Goff, Sweet Maria's husband and New York Times bestselling author

Lysa TerKeurst

"This book is not just a necessary guide to better decisions--it's a handbook for life that is sure to make a difference in yours."

- Lysa TerKeurst, #1 New York Times bestselling author

Ian Morgan Cron

"Andy Stanley strikes again! This challenging, practical, and engaging book will help you make better decisions and lead the life you really want."

- Ian Morgan Cron, author, The Road Back to You

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'Andy is a voice I've trusted in my life for a long time. One of the dozen things I like about Andy is that he doesn't varnish the truth but will tell us the way it is with kindness and a boatload of wisdom. This is the right book for the right time. We've got some important decisions to make and this book will help frame the right questions to ask.' -- BOB GOFF, Sweet Maria’s husband and New York Times bestselling author of Love Does, Everybody Always, and Dream Big

'Classic Andy--accessible to any of us wanting to change, yet deep enough to challenge you if you think you know the answers.' --
MAX LUCADO, pastor and New York Times bestselling author

'Wow, in this book Andy uses insights, understanding, and even humor to bring great clarity to the life-altering decisions we will all have to make. Deciding to get this book now could absolutely lead to fewer regrets later.' --
MICHAEL JR.

'When we were kids, we were warned about making faces because they might get stuck that way. In Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets, Andy Stanley helps us see a caution light that extends far beyond sticking out your tongue and crinkling up your forehead. In these pages you will discover that time doesn't change anything--it just makes you more of what you are today. Future you is an exaggerated version of current you. In the end, the life you get 'stuck' with is the life you make. Now is the time to change your choices to regret-proof your future. Andy will show you how.' --
LEVI LUSKO, pastor of Fresh Life Church and author

'Andy Stanley strikes again! This challenging, practical, and engaging book will help you make better decisions and lead to the life you really want. If you're looking for a book that's brimming with wisdom, insightful teaching, and that signature Andy Stanley humor, then look no further--this is it! I can't recommend it highly enough!' --
IAN MORGAN CRON, author, The Road Back to You

'It seems the more important the decision, the more we struggle making it. In this much needed message, Andy provides us with the wisdom we need and the questions we can ask that will lead us to choices that can improve our lives. I don't know about you, but my life is complicated enough without the confusion of uncertainty or, even worse, the turmoil of regret. This book is not just a necessary guide to better decisions--it's a handbook for life that is sure to make a difference in yours.' --
LYSA TERKEURST, #1 New York Times bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries

About the Author

Andy Stanley is a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary and the founding pastor of North Point Community Church in Atlanta, Georgia, with a youthful congregation of more than 12,000. Stanley is the author of the 1998 Foreword Book of the Year finalist Visioneering, the bestsellers Like a Rock and The Next Generation Leader, and How Good Is Good Enough? He and his wife, Sandra, have two sons and a daughter.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B085XNKPGW
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Zondervan (October 20, 2020)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ October 20, 2020
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1706 KB
  • Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Up to 5 simultaneous devices, per publisher limits
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
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  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 185 pages
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Communicator, author, and pastor Andy Stanley founded Atlanta-based North Point Ministries (NPM) in 1995. Today, NPM consists of eight churches in the Atlanta area and a network of 180 churches around the globe that collectively serve over 200,000 people weekly.

As host of Your Move with Andy Stanley, which delivers over 10.5 million messages each month through television, digital platforms, and podcasts and author of more than 20 books, including Irresistible; Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets; and Deep & Wide, he is considered one of the most influential pastors in America.

Andy and his wife, Sandra, have three grown children and live near Atlanta.

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Customers find the book offers helpful advice and common sense for making wise choices. They describe it as an easy, simple read written in a conversational style. The book is valuable for people of all ages, including parents helping their kids learn to make good decisions. Readers appreciate the fast pace and challenging questions that are immediately applicable. The stories and biblical illustrations are described as personal and classic Andy Stanley.

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Customers find the book's advice helpful and practical. They say it challenges them to make wise choices and helps clarify thinking. The author's advice is always practical and wise, opening their minds to better decisions. Readers mention the topics are important to living a better life and making wise choices.

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Customers appreciate the book's readability. They find it easy to understand, well-written, and a quick read. The conversational style makes them feel as if they're in the room with the author. The book is scriptural, practical, helpful, and life-changing.

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Customers find the book valuable for people of all ages. They say it's perfect for parents helping their kids, even young kids, teenagers, and grown kids, learn to make good decisions. It's a great read for anyone over 12, and good for people ready to have less regrets with the help of these tools. The straightforward and impactful teaching is appreciated by customers.

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Customers appreciate the book's timing and writing style. They find it a quick, easy read that provides powerful advice in an easy-to-understand manner. The questions presented are practical and easy to remember.

"...The timing of this book is excellent, because this has been a challenging season in so many ways, and it is easy to lose sight of the bigger picture..." Read more

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Customers appreciate the book's challenge. They find it insightful, challenging, and thought-provoking.

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Customers enjoy the book's pacing. They find the stories relatable and mention that the biblical truths and personal life experiences are presented in an engaging way. Readers describe the book as practical, helpful, and life-changing, especially for those starting out in life or under 40.

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I loved how this book built to such a crescendo; it inspired me to better thinking. I read a chapter each day to give each question time to really sink into my soul. I found myself wanting to post a tweet or message that Chapter X , or question X was the best. Full of personal scenarios and biblical insights, the book challenged me to think about past and future decisions in a way I wouldn’t have before reading this book.Andy’s good stories, that I could tie to moments in my life (growing up, raising kids, working with others in church and vocationally), gave me confidence to face the future decisions in my life Better. The questions and stories in the book are easy to share with others in all facets of life.Ultimately the final question is the best and most comprehensive. Andy reminds us that serving and loving others the way Jesus did is a high calling we are all worthy of, and is relevant for these divisive times. If we could all just live by that question day by day, we wouldn’t need all the other ones and our world would be a better place. Read this book, take time to let each chapter connect to your story and have its full effect. Make the decision to read this book; you won’t regret a minute spent doing so.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2020
    I was excited to get Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets, not because these are completely new and original ideas about wise decision-making, but because Andy Stanley does such a great job of taking challenging truth and making it painfully applicable to my life.

    As a regular attender at one of Andy’s Atlanta-area churches who has been listening to him for over 25 years, I have heard most of the content in this book at some point before. But this book is such a simple and easy read that I am amazed how rich it is! I read through the whole book in just a few hours over two days, but highlighted 229 phrases or passages that I found highly impactful.

    The stories that Andy uses to illustrate the principles, a mix of his own experiences and biblical narratives, is very engaging and powerful. Even at times when the content might be difficult to accept, the illustrations make the truth both compelling and inviting. My takeaway from many of the application examples was it often seemed easier said than done, and yet I felt so drawn to the outcomes that I was inspired to try asking these questions in my own life.

    The timing of this book is excellent, because this has been a challenging season in so many ways, and it is easy to lose sight of the bigger picture and what matters most when making so many difficult decisions in high pressure circumstances. By far the legacy question is the one that I find most helpful to refocus on the bigger story and pull up from the weeds.

    Asking what love requires of me is constantly one of the most challenging questions I wrestle with, often because deep down I know, yet the answer is hard and costly. Andy very bluntly points out that this is the only question with no guaranteed return. Loving others well might not ever be reciprocated or appreciated, and yet is such a powerful application to find clarity in even the most difficult and cloudy decision contexts.

    This is such an easy read, yet is powerfully rich and so applicable for doing life better one decision at a time!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2020
    Oh, what I would give to travel back in time and give this book to my 15 year old self. I hope I would have been wise enough to read it and apply it.

    In "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets", Andy Stanley teaches 5 basic questions to help guide you through life and live a life with fewer regrets.
    1. "Am I being hones with myself, really?"
    2. "What story do I want to tell?"
    3. "Is there a tension that needs my attention?"
    4. "What is the wise thing to do?"
    5. "What does love require of me?"

    Each of these questions serves as a guide in our day to day and big moment decision making. As Andy says on several occasions, "Every decision you make becomes a permanent part of your story." Which lends itself to the 3rd question, "What story do I want to tell?" or more importantly to me, at the end of my life, what story do I want to be told about me?

    We live in a day and age where critical thinking is at an all time low. This book provides practical, easy to read, guidance to help anyone in the decision making process.

    "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets" is an incredible tool for someone of any age. However, I would hope adults would apply it to their lives and then pass it on to younger generations.

    FULL DISCLOSURE: I was provided with an advance copy of this book in return for an honest review. However, I purchased a copy of the book. I plan on passing it down to my children.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2020
    It's like listening to an Andy Stanley sermon in book form. He writes like he speaks which makes this book trip along pretty quickly as it dispenses powerful bits of wisdom.

    I've been trying to use a decision filter over the last couple years:

    1. What's the wise thing to do?
    2. What does love require of me?
    3. What does unmitigated discipline look like in this situation?

    I'm not always successful, but the questions are powerful when I run up to a difficult situation.

    This new book from Andy Stanley covers two of those questions (1. and 2.) along with 3 others that help clarify decisions we have to make.

    While I'd love there to be a bit more info regarding deciding between two competing, difficult options that do not have ethical issues either way, I believe the 5 questions Stanley poses are more nuanced once you start using them in real time, in real life.

    After all, in my mind, life is a series of decisions. We are seldom intentional about these decisions, bouncing emotionally back and forth based on what will cause the least amount of present pain. Stanley encourages us to take a step back and do the actual right thing - not even just the right thing - but the thing that will result in as much future joy as possible - and what will create the least amount of regret.

    I recommend the book. It's a quick read, but it packs a punch and runs deeper than you think.
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  • KCourt
    5.0 out of 5 stars Clear. Practical. Logical. It’s a gift. Accept it.
    Reviewed in Canada on March 8, 2023
    Decisions determine the direction and trajectory of our future. Therefore the framework that guides our decision making process deserves our time and attention. Pastor Stanley gives us a practical, straightforward plug-and-play starting place. Wisdom says we should accept gifts authentically given with our best interest at heart. The faster we recognize the autonomy we have over the journey toward our future the sooner we’ll live a hope-filled life. This book is a great starting point.
  • Deepu
    5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
    Reviewed in India on June 8, 2024
    It's easier said then done and clearly one needs to implement and respect self and as showcased in this book decisions are to be taken in a sound manner and while love is a biggest factor good news is this book a good guide with examples that are very much relatable
  • Kindle Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Good
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 13, 2023
    Very good
  • Zeitgeschmack
    5.0 out of 5 stars Bin begeistert!
    Reviewed in Germany on January 22, 2021
    Top !
  • Ps Kevin Thomas
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
    Reviewed in Australia on November 7, 2020
    Anyone not wanting to look back at the end of their life with regret needs to embrace this timely message right away...

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