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The Way of the Superior Man Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

David Deida (Author), Cecil Archbold (Narrator), Sounds True (Publisher)
4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars 14,067 ratings
#1 Best Seller in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality
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In the decades since the initial publication of The Way of the Superior Man, society has changed significantly. Issues of gender and sexuality long confined to secrecy have become part of everyday conversation, and rigid ideas about our societal roles have begun to dissolve.

And yet, perhaps now more than at any time, men of all ages still “tussle with the challenges of women, work, and sexual desire.” In this unabridged audiobook of the classic guide to masculine spirituality, David Deida encourages men and women to lean into the conversation and offer their most valuable assets to the world—their authentic heart and depth of presence.

More relevant than ever, The Way of the Superior Man offers a view of a more conscious and embodied masculinity. “It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart”, writes Deida. “It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.”

Including a new preface written in celebration of the book’s 20th anniversary, The Way of the Superior Man presents the next generation of with the opportunity to grapple with fear, cultivate trust in the moment, and put forth the best versions of themselves in an ever-changing world.

Read by Cecil Archbold.

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  1. Listening Length
    5 hours and 22 minutes
  2. Author
    David Deida
  3. Narrator
    Cecil Archbold
  4. Audible release date
    September 4, 2018
  5. Language
    English
  6. Publisher
    Sounds True
  7. ASIN
    B07FXZBYJ9
  8. Version
    Unabridged
  9. Program Type
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Listening Length 5 hours and 22 minutes
Author David Deida
Narrator Cecil Archbold
Audible.com Release Date September 04, 2018
Publisher Sounds True
Program Type Audiobook
Version Unabridged
Language English
ASIN B07FXZBYJ9
Best Sellers Rank #191 in Audible Books & Originals (See Top 100 in Audible Books & Originals)
#1 in Medical Psychology of Sexuality
#1 in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality
#1 in Sexual & Reproductive Health

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Customers find the book easy to read and digest, offering profound insights into relationships and life. They describe it as a powerful guide for modern men, with concise and to-the-point chapters. Readers appreciate the honesty and authenticity of the content. However, some feel the pacing is inconsistent and nonsensical.

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566 customers mention "Readability"521 positive45 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and digest. They find it a valuable guide for men. The writing style is clear and concise, making it an excellent resource.

"...Why did I choose this rating? - Because it is a great read and the information presented is always concise with the intro of each chapter...." Read more

"...aspects of the book is its emphasis on the balance between masculine and feminine energies...." Read more

"I loved how the book spoke on the differences between feminine and masculine. Within a man and woman. Great insight, especially for a man." Read more

"...of having taken ecstasy simply by engaging your partner is well worth the discipline, or maintain full body orgasms for 30 minutes, 4 times a day is..." Read more

416 customers mention "Insight"382 positive34 negative

Customers find the book offers profound insights that extend beyond the realm. It helps them understand their true purpose and engage with the world. The book provides useful advice, anecdotes, and relevant information, helping readers evaluate themselves and their relationships.

"...Deida’s guidance on embracing challenges, understanding your true purpose, and engaging with the world from a place of strength is both inspiring..." Read more

"...Within a man and woman. Great insight, especially for a man." Read more

"...knew and lived by just to see them explained and put into scenarios was enlightening." Read more

"...The masculine energy is defined by traits, the feminine energy is defined by traits, and the polarity between the two creates a balance in which the..." Read more

49 customers mention "Relationship"44 positive5 negative

Customers find the book helpful for finding and keeping true love in their lives. They appreciate its insights on intimacy, parenting, romantic relationships, and overall life perspective. The book helps them reclaim their power in relationships and transform their relationships with partners.

"...Deida offers a fresh and nuanced understanding of sexual dynamics, inviting women to explore their own desires and better understand the desires of..." Read more

"...David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" has become a cherished companion, offering profound insights that extend far beyond the realm of..." Read more

"...an in-depth look at many challenges men face on a daily basis--keeping a woman happy , finding fulfillment and purpose in a career, becoming a..." Read more

"...The book talks to men and how to please their partner and the wonders of love. It also says to find your purpose...." Read more

26 customers mention "Power"23 positive3 negative

Customers find the book helpful. They say it provides powerful insights and helps them reach their full potential. The book is consistent in its use, making readers feel powerful and free.

"...on how to channel your masculine energy in a way that is both powerful and compassionate are eye-opening...." Read more

"...This path is a hard one, but it is real and it is powerful...." Read more

"...way, I found this book to be truly wise on the topics of women, and success, among other less controversial topics, as read by a man." Read more

"Was ok. I would only read if you’re a strong critical thinker. Some of the stuff in this book is very strange...." Read more

20 customers mention "Ease of reading"20 positive0 negative

Customers find the book easy to understand and quick to read. They appreciate the relatable examples and straightforward style. The book is accessible and helpful, providing practical advice that can be applied immediately.

"...The chapters are quick, making it(mostly) a breeze to read through in one sitting and the advice will certainly give you some solid theories about..." Read more

"...It covers aspects of being man in a very creative and easy to understand way! 10/10" Read more

"...have helped me navigate the challenges of modern masculinity with greater ease and authenticity...." Read more

"...You can open the book to any page/chapter and read it in a few moments. Doesn't need to be read in chronological order...." Read more

17 customers mention "Authenticity"17 positive0 negative

Customers find the book honest and genuine. They appreciate its straightforward approach that encourages authenticity and personal growth. However, some readers feel the content is not straightforward or easy to read.

"...It is not a literal book at least most of it is not...." Read more

"...It's more than a book; it's a companion that resonates with authenticity and truth...." Read more

"...This book is just something else. Recommend for all men before marriage. Open minded men only though. Not for big egos." Read more

"...It's a timeless guide for personal growth and authentic living, offering a unique perspective that transcends gender boundaries...." Read more

106 customers mention "Writing quality"62 positive44 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the writing quality. Some find it clear and easy to understand, with frank language. Others feel the book is simplistic and one-dimensional, making it hard for beginners to understand. The writing gets repetitive quickly.

"...Because it is a great read and the information presented is always concise with the intro of each chapter...." Read more

"...of applying the concepts described in this book, and the book does not describe in detail exactly how to do that, and rightfully so, because such..." Read more

"...The writing style is straightforward but poetic, making complex ideas accessible...." Read more

"...I find this book incredibly boring, obvious, egotistical, arrogant, self-aggrandizing, self-important, nonsensical, idiotic, stupid, and a book that..." Read more

62 customers mention "Pacing"15 positive47 negative

Customers find the book's pacing inconsistent. They find the advice counterintuitive, repetitive, and strange at times. Some readers describe the book as dogmatic and lacking exercises to practice.

"...obvious, egotistical, arrogant, self-aggrandizing, self-important, nonsensical, idiotic, stupid, and a book that is written strictly from an..." Read more

"...is sometimes called "poetic," which is a nice way of saying that he's cheesy, vague, and likes to spout trite New Age cliches as if they were..." Read more

"The contents of this book are not always politically-correct or scientifically validated. It doesn't pretend to be either...." Read more

"...apparent that the woman's role in being absolutely vulnerable, carefree, and not defaulting to their own masculine mind due to a lack of trust in..." Read more

This is a Guide to Ascending to inner self
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This is a Guide to Ascending to inner self
This like most self help or religious text is a guide filled with advice anecdotes ,and analogies that go into the life and mind of the modern man . Though the text needs to be updated because some chapters like nine “do it for love “can be misconstrued, and seen as toxic even. The specific advice on this chapter should be taken with great caution. “ especially those that are aware of their addiction to fun times for adults “ one should always be aware and clearing and cleansing one’s aura/energy / chi after any intimate encounter. All in all they are saying with every intimate moment make sure that in taking part in that moment do it with an open heart and open mind.
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  • Apo
    5.0 out of 5 stars Deep and eye opening
    Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2024
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    What did I like or dislike?
    - I liked that it took into account that the difference of man and woman is something to be cherished and that we actually need each other to live a fulfilling life.
    That it is important to understand how you can achieve a state flow of your being when you accept the nature of the sexes.

    Maybe I disliked sometimes the wording that was chosen, but that is personal preference, I am not a big fan of very esoteric things, and for that part it is very raw to real life examples only sometimes lashed into words that can be hard to equate to some meaningful lesson.

    Whom would I recommend this book to?
    - To any Men who feel like they are out of touch with their purpose and have had bad experiences with women, it will teach you why it is your task to have a fulfilling relationship with your opposite.

    Why did I choose this rating?
    - Because it is a great read and the information presented is always concise with the intro of each chapter. There lies some true wisdom here which you only get from a lot of practice in sex, love and relationships that is very condensed here.
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  • Stanley
    5.0 out of 5 stars I loved this!
    Reviewed in the United States on August 31, 2024
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    One of the most impactful aspects of the book is its emphasis on the balance between masculine and feminine energies. Deida eloquently discusses how these forces interact in relationships, work, and personal growth. His insights on how to channel your masculine energy in a way that is both powerful and compassionate are eye-opening. The advice goes beyond surface-level tips and delves into the deeper aspects of consciousness and spirituality.

    The writing style is straightforward but poetic, making complex ideas accessible. Deida’s guidance on embracing challenges, understanding your true purpose, and engaging with the world from a place of strength is both inspiring and practical. This isn’t just a book about being a “better man” in the traditional sense—it’s about understanding and mastering yourself to contribute more meaningfully to the world around you.

    Some readers may find certain ideas a bit esoteric or unconventional, but that’s part of what makes this book so unique. It’s not just about self-improvement; it’s about self-discovery on a deeper level. Whether you’re looking to improve your relationships, find your purpose, or simply understand yourself better, The Way of the Superior Man offers timeless wisdom that can benefit men of all ages.

    This book is a must-read for anyone on a journey to becoming the best version of themselves, not just as a man, but as a human being. Highly recommended!
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  • J Harv
    5.0 out of 5 stars Be willing to learn while reading this book!!
    Reviewed in the United States on November 30, 2024
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    I loved how the book spoke on the differences between feminine and masculine. Within a man and woman. Great insight, especially for a man.
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  • Amazon Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Best book I have ever read
    Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2024
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    So much valuable information was in this book. Even a lot of things I already knew and lived by just to see them explained and put into scenarios was enlightening.
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  • Pierced
    4.0 out of 5 stars If You Do Not Apply It, You Simply Won't Understand It
    Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2011
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    I am giving this book 4 stars. For myself, it is a 5 star book, but for men seeking enlightenment on the subject of women and relationships, do not expect to find "answers" here. The answers are in the practice of applying the concepts described in this book, and the book does not describe in detail exactly how to do that, and rightfully so, because such techniques cannot be taught in the pages of a book, they must be experienced first hand.

    Deida's work resides entirely within the concepts of polarity and energetics. These are things that are currently unmeasurable by scientific instruments, just as DNA and subatomic particles were not so long ago. If you are looking for clear cut scientific "facts" on the subject of men and women, then look elsewhere because you won't find them here. Deida's work is based on truths that you won't find in science for years to come, but if you do not require "scientific facts", and you are simply wise enough to look and feel inside yourself for what is true and what is not, Deida speaks more truth on the subject of men and women, relationships, polarity and love than any sect of Tantra, Yoga or any individual doctor, sex therapist, or pick up artist out there.

    When Deida talks about the feminine and masculine, he is purely talking about energy, NOT the physical body of a man or woman. The masculine energy is defined by traits, the feminine energy is defined by traits, and the polarity between the two creates a balance in which the entire universe sympathetically operates.

    If the Big Bang is the purest form of the feminine essence, than gravity, dark matter, dark energy, and black holes would be the purest form of the masculine essence. This relationship, the ying and the yang, the duality of the universe, has been present from the beginning of time, and is found in everything, especially within ourselves and our partners. Deida's work is to define these polarities so a man and a woman can simply recognize them for what they are and work with them as they wish. His work does provide solutions to create a definitive balance between the two, and these solutions are simply tools to keep your relationship absolutely delicious.

    Being a man myself, I was initially resentful of the fact that in Deida's eyes, men are required to do all of the "work" in the relationship, while the woman expand into chaos. But when you truly understand the work and the teachings Deida is talking about, it becomes apparent that the woman's role in being absolutely vulnerable, carefree, and not defaulting to their own masculine mind due to a lack of trust in their man is equally as hard, if not harder than what the masculine is required to do.

    A woman can easily assume the role of the masculine energy, while the man assumes the feminine. It's actually very common in Western Culture today. As long as the polarity exists, the relationship will always be delicious, despite the ups and downs; it just requires hard work and daily practice from both partners to achieve it.

    My girlfriend and I have been practicing Deida's work for a year. It's insane. The ability to literally recreate the feeling of having taken ecstasy simply by engaging your partner is well worth the discipline, or maintain full body orgasms for 30 minutes, 4 times a day isn't bad either.

    And what does it all add up to? Well, nothing. It's simply all for the sake of creating art through love while we're here. It's to be of service to others, to give our greatest gift, to experience love on a level very few people in their entire life will ever experience, and to die. There are no secrets to life buried in this book. You practice and serve your relationship, simply to experience love like it has never been experienced before.

    This book is not a quick fix. You don't just read it and have all the answers. Honestly, if you read this book and try to apply some of the advice given, you will probably apply it incorrectly and it won't work because you will be missing the energetics involved. There is a teaching that needs to coincide with these words, that unless you seek those teachings and put them into practice, you won't find all that much value here besides an interesting read and possibly a doorway into a new kind of life style.

    This path is a hard one, but it is real and it is powerful. Women will find themselves insanely attracted to you and often times, might not entirely know why. It usually starts with men breathing properly, standing properly, and keeping their mouths shut.

    If you're willing to learn and actually apply the concepts in this book, and seek out the teachings that go with it, you will find fulfillment in your life and your relationship that transcends everything.

    Since getting involved in Deida's work, my girlfriend and I have dedicated every waking moment to it, and we have not looked back since.
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  • Anon
    5.0 out of 5 stars All men should read this.
    Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2024
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    Wish I had read this 10 years ago. Outstanding work and a must read for every young man.
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  • Oscar Zamudio
    5.0 out of 5 stars WOW! I highly recommend to all men ready to move to the top level
    Reviewed in the United States on December 17, 2024
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    I have been on a growth journey all my life. I had an absent father whom made fun of my 1st wet dream along with my uncle. No one taught me a bout sex let alone a spiritual journey. I was struggling with my masculinity. I have been on a spiritual path for over a year which gave me the growth, capacity, and maturity leading me to understanding this is leveling up and clearly lays out the ground work for honoring our masculinity. I will use this book as a reference to guide me through my relationship with my spouse to honor her feminine energy while understanding wholly my masculine energy and understand there is nothing in this world that compares to the power of a man’s masculinity and we should own it and use it to give this gift to the world and our mate.
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  • Justin J. Carson
    5.0 out of 5 stars Enjoyed it!
    Reviewed in the United States on November 21, 2024
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    Definitely enjoyed this book. It’s one that I plan to reference. It’s worth the buy, even if it is a blind buy.
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  • Uriel
    5.0 out of 5 stars Excelente libro
    Reviewed in Mexico on November 28, 2024
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    Gran recomendación , gran libro , fácil lectura , directo, interesante, aplicable , lo recomiendo
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  • Puparu
    5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all men who are serious about living in the masculine
    Reviewed in Canada on October 8, 2024
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    Deep, insightful like all other books by David Deida. I read the book 3 times and every time I got new insights, new realizations, new ways to interpret the information, but the third time I really felt I had my best AHA! moment. Truly inspirational.
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  • Cliente Kindle
    5.0 out of 5 stars Mandatory read
    Reviewed in Brazil on January 13, 2022
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    If you are a person with more masculine energy, you need this book. Just take the time to think of how you will apply its lessons in your daily life, though
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  • Momo
    5.0 out of 5 stars Quality
    Reviewed in the United Arab Emirates on December 18, 2024
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    Informative content.
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  • its an amazing product, recommended
    5.0 out of 5 stars good book
    Reviewed in Germany on October 28, 2024
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    great quality
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